Okay you guys are so right - I am such an emotional "forgiving" person - that I was already "touched" by his "act yesterday". Apparently - I'm so stupid - I just heard from a friend I work with at our office downtown and she tells me that my supervisor saw my H at a house (where he was landscaping) and he was sitting in a car with a "blonde girl". (that's her) She didn't know what day it was or what the car looked like - but amazingly enough - he calls right after that call and I happen to answer the phone here at work - I ask him why did he have to have "her" at Debra's house for everyone to see - and he's like "I have NEVER had her at Debra's house- she doesn't even know where Debra lives." Garbage, mumbo jumbo - crap - and then I say - "yeah, just like I'm sure you've talked to her and told her to hit the road!" And he said, "Yes I did I called her at lunch and told her." Apparently, I get accussed of stuff I don't do - that I made the wrong choice! [click - he hangs up] Can you believe him? I'm in the process of finding out the exact day and time he was with her at this home so that I won't be stupid without facts, etc. - (like it really matters) but then he just now calls me back and says that "we've got some serious problems" and I said "what are you talking about". And he says "with this situation". And I said "what, is she pregnant again?" And he said "No - at least if she was though I know it wouldn't be mine" So - he asks me to call him at 5:00 when I get off so he can tell me. What is he up to now? Is she threatening to sue him - my mind is asking a thousand questions - of course it could just be some sort of ploy, etc. I asked him to go ahead and tell me now - and he said it wasn't the time or the place - so I can't imagine what could be going on - IS HE JUST TRYING TO HELP ME LOSE MY MIND?<P>------------------<BR>

DD,<BR> Plan B. No more talking to him. Go back and re-read what Plan B is about. Give yourself a little refresher, k? <BR> You work on you! You are quite capable of implementing an excellent Plan B. We all got a little taste of how you did. And you were Great!<BR> When you talk to him, you allow him to drag you down. Don't talk to him. Do Plan B, sweetie! Don't *let* him walk on you, and do not allow him any *chances* to freak you out. <BR> Now, go find the Plan B article, hon. Read it and do it! You are awesome! <BR> Mynabird