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Okay, I have really gotten hold of something - via my precious retarded H. We had a note that had to be paid off - and he was to make a deposit into our business account so that I could write the check for the note payoff - well stupid, moron didn't have the $$$$ that day and to pacify me (or whatever) he has OW (yes, she is his puppet) give him a blank check and then he makes it out and deposits it into our account (unbeknownst to me of course) and then guess what - the check is NSF and it is mailed to me! Oh don't you just love it - Now not only is my account overdrawn - but I have a NSF check from OW for $3,500 that she can be picked up for as a felony! What should I do? <P>------------------<BR>
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PICK HER UP. this isn't a friend who made a mistake. You would only be following the law, so do it. I would have her picked up. Why should you do her any favors. I mean not only does she wreck your life, but now she is costing YOU personally more money! Let us know what you do!!! Good luck. See it always comes back around.<P>babstr.
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Pick her Up! have no mercy she did not have any for you or your family, and she will try to take all your money too! So...do not loose this chance and do it! Really! <BR>fambis
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DD:<P>Have her picked up, DD. It is an opportunity you won't want to miss. Don't worry about spouse...you doing this will scare him that you have moxy. At this point, you have nothing to loose.<P>After all she has done to you, it's the LEAST you can do to reciprocate.<P>Isn't it amazing how sometimes justice just falls in our laps? <P>One more thing, when she goes to court and the whole sordid story and explanations come out, what do you think the judge and the court will think of her? Not a pretty picture.<P>Now, go do what you must do.<P>Catnip =^^=
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Man - you really think I should? Ha - that would really be a hoot! Yep - just like with you - things just fall into our lap! You're right what do I have to lose? A H that apparently want me anyway.<P>------------------<BR>
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Go for it. I'd just love to have something fall into my lap about the OW!!!! In the state of MO, you'd be able to get restitution up to 3 times the amount of the check!!! Wouldn't that be lovely?
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YES, YES, YES. Do it don't hold back. Lord knows she didn't hold back when she decided to screw YOUR husband, and have a child. Call a lawyer, find out what all can be done. I think everyone is right about what the court says, for once, the court will be on your side!! <P>babstr
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You all are a hoot! Imagine something like this getting us all fired up!!!! I'm talking to someone today. But does it look like some kind of "desperate" ploy at keeping my H? Because I'm not sure I want him anyway at this point - and I sure don't want to do it for that - it's just simply to give her some of what she dished out. I never "asked" her to come into my marriage - in fact I pleaded wtih her to "do the right thing", etc. etc.<P>------------------<BR>
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Just thinking about this. She gives him a blank check (I presume she did put her signature on it) and doesn't ask what he will do with it? She had to know that he was putting into your account. And she had to know that it would bounce. I think she was trying to stab you once again by causeing your account to get messed up. Maybe I read too much into this, but PLEASE go get her. I think she was trying to hurt you & deserves to have this turned back on her. <P>Carolyn
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Just like taking care said, I think she knew this would once again hurt you. Otherwise why would she do it. Isn't she the one who is always getting and needing the money from you H? Why all of a sudden would she have that amount of money? She is always begging for funds, now out of the blue she has some, I don't think so. Keep us up to date on what is going on. Nothing like getting legal payback, you owe it to her. <P>babstr.
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No, DD, it is not a *desperate ploy*, on your part. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) She did it, she has to pay the piper. WoooHooo!!!! Go for it, girl!<BR> <BR> Mynabird*cackling my a$$ off*
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