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we are going to court it looks like, have tried reasoning with her and its not working...<P>What comes up in court?<P>Has anyone been for visitation rights I mean?<P>This GIRL told H on the phone she is telling them everything. That may not be good. My H has been known to smoke a joint every now and again. She knows this so I know she will bring it up. I figure that since I know before hand, he can stop now, then tell the judge he hasnt smoked in forever and if they test him he will come up clean... But will this work? <P>Thats really the only bad thing she has on him. I personally dont touch the stuff and he NEVER does it in my home. As a matter of fact when he did do it... he got high with HER FATHER>..... Oh my god... suddenly.... I see a long huge drawn out mud slinging battle coming..... not good not good at all...
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Does the ow have any proof that your H smokes? Not that Im suggesting denying it or anything, but maybe ow should be reminded of her lack of character and morals as being a role model for the baby.<BR>I think just the fact that you are sticking by your H's side says a lot for your side of the case. Who can provide a better enviroment for this child? Ow is just a child. Does she still live with mommy? Does she have a job? Is she married?<BR>Who has a better case? I am sorry but I do not think that dope smoking in the past determines what kind fo parent you are now. Is that the best she can throw at you? They gave my H a top secret security clearence and he admitted to smoking a couple of times.<BR>Sounds to me like your ow is really reaching here. Pathetic.<P>We are Wives...Hear us RoaR!!!!!!
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The only proof she has is if her father comes up and says, yeah, he smokes with me all the time. That probably wouldnt be a good idea on her part ya know? And yes she lives with her parents. Makes no sense to me. I enrolled him in this drug rehab thing to look good for the courts, (He doesnt need it, like I said, he smokes as a recreational thing and only once in a great while) but I figure that can only help us ya know? This is crazy. I cant believe I am going through this.
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Well if her father smokes and she lives with her father then that means the baby is around someone who smokes....you would think that would be a duh thing not to bring up. Shes not the brightest if she brings that up.<BR>What a brainchild...did she not learn any thing in high school? ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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