I am on my w account. She is pregnant with om baby and is looking for someone to talk to. I hope you two can talk. Her loving husband, sailorman59

Tigger, how far along are you in your pregnancy? I am glad to see that you and your husband are working it out. I do not know what will become of my marriage. Sometimes I think it will work and other times I do not based on my husbands moods. I know it is alot for him to handle. Anyway, welcome aboard!!<P>"Talk to you soon"<BR>Neptune

I am right at 17 weeks. I am very lucky in that my H has gone to all but one of the ob appts with me, and he is very supportive in all the changes that come early in a pregnancy. None of it has been easy, but it is getting there. It is easier to ask him things like if it is a boy, will it be harder for him to accept the child(especially since our son looks just like my H) His answer, which I appreciated his honesty, was that he honestly doesn't know, but that God never gives you more than you can handle. We have an ultra sound scheduled for 2 weeks from now, and are hoping we can tell the gender of this child. But mostly, we are just hoping for a healthy one. God will help us deal with anything if we just let him, and don't try to do it all on our own. Being able to be so open with my H, I can understand why it can be so hard for them. All I can say is try to understand where he is coming from, and be supportive when you can. I hope for the best for you, and please feel free to ask me anything at any time.<P>God Bless<P>Tigger4jdt