Please don't let me drive anyone away. Duranie, you have earned your place here, and I have not. Regardless of my intentions, people are getting upset and hurt as a result of my actions (words) on this board. You ladies need this board more than I do and I will quietly retreat. I will, however, be lurking. I've followed a lot of your stories before actually posting and have found myself cheering for a lot of you and hurting for the others. I wish you all the best and will look for your "happy endings".<P>Best Regards and warmest wishes,<BR>Claudia (ohbratti1)<BR>