hi all. i can't believe how hard it has been not to come here. funny that people you have never even met can become so important to you. i really needed a break, and i couldn't deal with the 2 new OW's we had posting here. they got me infuriated and sad and mad and all kinds of other emotions i just didn't want to deal with. i had told myself i would give it a couple of days and then pop in to see what was going on. i am glad i did. looks like things are getting back to normal here, and we have our safe haven again.<P>i missed you all. i have lots of reading to do to catch up on all that has been going on while i was gone. you have been in my thoughts and prayers though. take care. <P>happy_girl

Welcome back Happy_girl!<P>Yes, we have our safe haven back again and we have missed you.<P>It is wonderful to have things "back to normal" as you said.<P>When you catch up with what's been happening with us, we'ld love to hear how things are with you.<P>Take care and God bless,<BR>- Heavenly

Happy Girl. Just curious. Who were the OW? I knew there were a few here. I've been so sad and drained I haven't had much strenght to lurk. Just very selective on which posts I read.<P>Curious when OW post just in case mine might possible come here. <P>------------------<BR>Lost Soulmate<P>"Character is doing what's right, when no one is looking"

LSM: I think one was Obratti and Noodles knows the name of the other one.<P>Catnip =^^=

Happy girl:<P>I am so glad you are back to our 'haven'. Please know things like this sometimes happen without lasting fallout..they go away eventually. In time, their presence here won't matter all that much to you. Remember you're still pretty raw...you need some time to get past this.<P>You were missed.<P>Catnip =^^=

Tryingtobestrong was the other one.

thanks guys! i am so glad to be back. <P>lsm, the others already answered your question. probably best you didn't notice them!<P>heavenly and catnip, thanks for your constant support. all is going better here. me and H are doing great. just in limbo still with the courts. but i have a feeling this won't be resolved until after new year. guess we will have to enjoy the money for the holidays because soon we will be broke. i am going home to visit my best friend from high school next week so i will be gone for awhile. will miss you all!! but i will be back and then can catch up. i need a break from work. H isn't going. we can't afford it right now. he wouldn't have fun anyway, it will be girl and baby talk, as she recently adopted a baby boy.<P>i think it would be fun to share our photos. i could set up a website at photopoint and email the address to those who wanted to see the pictures. you could even email me the pictures and i will post them. saw it over on the general board. just an idea. i love pictures.<P>well, i am off to bed. talk to ya'll later.<P>happy_girl

Welcome back, Happy_Girl! I, too, am glad to see our haven return. You were missed. I stayed away a couple of days and then came back. Glad you're back also.<P>Comfort