I've read what Dr. Harley has to say about people with low sex drives. In one letter he basically says that the solution is having sex at the time of day when you have the most energy and this should increase your sex drive.

Has anyone with a low sex drive followed this advice? Has it worked for you?

Although it has only been about two weeks since I discovered this website, I keep telling myself I'm going to try it, but sex is so disappointing to me, I just can't bring myself to do it. I did try it for a few days but I couldn't keep it up.

I have one other question as well. Is there anyone else here that married someone in-spite of a lack of passion and has had success creating chemistry with their partner even though it didn't exist before. Or am I the only dummy.

My husband and I have always had a good friendship but I never had that in-love feeling for him. You know that feeling you have when you have a crush on someone or when you strongly desire them sexually.

But I married him anyway because everyone says that that feeling doesn't last anyway. There are some other factors that contributed to my decision to marry him as well, including the fact that I thought God had chosen him for me. It's a long story and I can't tell it all in this one message, but now I'm struggling with even Dr. Harley's advice because it seems it is for people who have had the feeling before but have lost it and want to get it back. I'm not so sure that I fit in that category

lj