just wanted to ask where you are in New York. I am located just about 8 miles from the New york border in PA. Rest assured that I'm not asking for the purpose of stalking you or anything (I am far too busy preying on ow, ha ha!). It's just that we get a lot of NY newspapers here (this town is too small for a newspaper of its own, and we are too far away from anyplace in PA that civilized) and I was thinking that I might be able to read about your upcoming court case if the press picks it up.<BR>BTW, our little Miss Nasty should have just received her certified letter regarding the court date for the custody/visitation hearing. It is set for March 19th. i'll bet she's sweating bullets. Meanwhile, I continue to meet her on the battlefield of kindness, where she is as much out of her element as a fish out of water. If you listen carefully, you can almost hear her gasping for air...<BR>How is your new M.O. shaping up?<BR>-cd, contender for the throne

More on the custody/visitation papers:<BR>I just received our copy of the papers in the mail. They say very plainly that my h is seeking FULL custody, not just visitation, of oc. We had told our lawyer to word it like that (and really I wouldn't mind having full custody if it came to that) but I didn't know for sure how he would submit it. I'll bet ow is having a fit.

CD,<P>Good luck with the custody hearing. I don't know if I will be at home around that time, as it is right around my due date. I hope your OW is having multiple anurisms(sp?) after receiving those papers!! I really don't understand these female beings who choose to force themselves into other's lives like that! I could never do that myself, and regret what I have already done. Anyway, yes, I can hear that "fish" gasping for breath right now!! Again, good luck.<P>Tigger

cd, I'll bet she is crapping pineapples about right now. Good luck with love flowerseed

Thanks, Tigger!<BR>I have always maintained that if the situation was reversed and I was having a child by om, I would want us to handle it just like you and sailorman. I admire both of you so much.<BR>If I was a single woman who had a child by a mm, there is no way the mm would ever even find out about the baby. i can't understand why they don't just find their own men, get married and have them adopt the babies.<BR>Why cause the pain to go on and on and on...<P>Anyway, best of luck to you as you get closer to delivering that beautiful baby. If she has half the character her mother has, she'll be an angel. I said 'she' but I guess I should have said 'she or he' right? I think you said before you thought it was a girl but aren't completely sure. Is that right?<BR>with love, cd

Flowerseeds,<BR>Giant Guiness Book of World Record Sized Pinapples I hope!<BR>With love,<BR>cd

Kudos to you cd. You sound like someone I'd need as my friend if you lived here in Ohio.<P>Your posts amaze me. You are so cool!<P>Can they turn this thing into visitation only? <P>I loved Flowerseeds analogy....ohhh I bet that hurts!<P>Best of luck to you. I feel good things will happen...just a feeling. I don't get that feeling a lot around here, but with this I do.<P>Same with Catnips saga...I feel good vibes for her too! She's been to hell and back with her ow.<P> Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

cd:<P>I live in Minnesota, not in NY. The Ow lives in NY. Part of the affair took place in Texas. Texas is where I am suing her for Personal Injury.<P>If anything is published in any papers in Texas or NY or MN, I will copy it off and send it out to anyone interested. It will be quite a while though as we have not yet begun the suit. <P>Catnip =^^= <p>[This message has been edited by catnip (edited February 22, 2001).]

pineapples! you guys crack me up! thank's for the laugh Good luck CD!

flowerseed, you say the funniest things sometimes. i will be giggling about that for hours. thanks!<P>cd- make her squirm....<P>happy_girl