catnip<BR>Member posted March 03, 2001 04:14 PM <BR>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------<BR>Onlyfriends:<BR>This guy sounds terribly manipulative. I can't get over how he puts the responsibility of how he treats his wife onto you, as if you have the power to impact her life unwittingly. I don't get it and he sounds like he is either evil or selfish.<P><BR>what makes this person different from other OWs? If her MM is selfish and evil and SHE doesn't have the power to impact her life unwittingly, why would the other OWs be given that "power" and why is it that other OWs are always the only one to blame as if the other husbands are treating their wives as angels by cheating on them. I just don't get how hypocritical you can be.