Hello. My husband left in December after 5 months of marriage. Now, he claims to want reconciliation and says he wants us to see a marriage counselor, but it's been 3 weeks and he hasn't found a counselor yet. I have looked up the information, but I am reluctant to suggest one that I pick out because my husband has control issues.

He seemed to be happy with not being with me and said he was going to file for divorce. When I mentioned that I would file to get it over with (after he dragged his feet), he started on this reconciliation kick. I feel that it's just a way to protect his ego.

I am torn. I know God hates divorce. And I've looked into ways of trying to restore my marriage, but at other times I just want out. Does anyone have any advice?