Today H sent me an email saying he wants to be part of my baby life. He wants to take the responsibility as the father. I'm confused. Just last week, he said he wants nothing to do with her and will never admit to her that he's her father for the rest of his life. <P>Unfortunately, he will still go ahead and file for the divorce. He will not listen to me. I wish he takes the time to think about it before he files. But I guess I can't change him...Only him can change himself not even child.