A couple of nights ago I was on the phone with OW and found out some interesting information that truely shows me her character... not that I thought she was an angel by any means.<P>All along she has told me and H that she didn't believe in abortion and killing children, and that's why she couldn't abort OC.<P>Well as you all know, OW thinks I'm her new best friend because she has no one else to talk to. She's telling me how her breast as soooo sore and they feel like they did when they were engorged with milk. I asked her if she was pregnant. She says no. I asked what would she do if she was. She says.. "gee, I know I wouldn't want to get ANOTHER abortion in the state of Georgia. That was a bad experience. I'd have to go home to New York and see the clinic there."<P>Hello stupid b*t*h, can you not remember the lies you've told me. What do I look like, a teenage idiot. You would have aborted that baby if you didn't want to steal my husband for yourself. But guess what ladies ... her plan failed. Now she's alone and miserable with a man she met on the internet that ignores her and she has four kids by three different men, living in an apartment and no car! Too bad, soo sad.<P>I laughed so hard inside. Told hubby later. He just shook his head. I commented to him, I hope you finally realize she trapped your [censored]. And left it at that.<P>Just a little insight into the OW's wicked mind.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Ahhhh, another classic case of wanting all the privileges and none of the responsibilities.<P>These opportunistic predators have an agenda, and if it is convenient for them and profitable to get themselves knocked up, they will. Then they call the shots in court and in our lives, but refuse to be held accountable for their actions. <P>If it is inconvenient or not profitable for them to have a child, they simply kill it. But, if it looks like they can trap a man into leaving his wife and marry them, they have a mealticket and the satisfaction of having "won" a man that is not theirs. If the man turns his back on her, then she has his child and makes him pay for two decades and put his family and thier lives through heartwrenching, impossible situations.<P>I hope her boobs explode.<P>Catnip =^^=

catnip,<BR>Oh my thank you for that one he he! Kinda like zebras bombs on the chat site. I found also that our ow couldnt keep her lies straight either. I believe that has alot to do what they are lacking upstairs. with love flowerseed

Just had to chime in with my own filthy lying ow story:<P>As I have said before, ow told my h that she was not only infertile, but that carrying a child to full term would cause total and permanent paralysis, so she wouldn't even have unprotected sex if she wasn't just CERTAIN that she couldn't get knocked up. Apparantly she felt the need to stick to that ridiculous story even after she had oc. When we were having our first visit with oc, ow launched into an elaborate tale about how "miraculous" oc's birth was, all the extreme precautions doctors had to take to prevent her from being paralyzed, and how she was going to have her tubes tied because the doctors warned her that if she ever attempted to carry a baby again that FOR SURE she would be paralyzed. Then, on the next visit, having apparantly forgotten the whole wild yarn, she mentioned that her sister wanted her to be a surrogate mother for her, because sister wanted another child but was having problems conceiving. She said that she was considering it, but she didn't know if she could afford to miss work to deliver the baby. I said, with mock seriousness, "Gee, I guess so. You'd probably end up missing a LOT of work because after that you would be permanently paralyzed, right?" She couldn't even think of anything to say. H just laughed and laughed about it on the way home.<P>Can anybody say "pathological"?<P>-cd

Well I guess it is now my turn to chime in with my lying ow story. Zebra, just as your other woman mine has no life and no car, but also no job and I got you beat with, mine lives at home with her parents. At least yours is a little independant with her own apartment. Yeah right and who pays for the apartment your h and her live in boyfriend. These ow, none of them that I have read about truely show any true independance, responsibility or maturity. Okay ready for the big lie ours told. I originaly found out about the whole thing after the oc was already three years old, he is now five. The way I found out and what the ow did is the big, giant, ugly, dirty, lie. She had been threatening my h off and on for those first couple of years with telling me,and then she started dating his best friend, so she left him alone for awhile. Then those two started having problems and she started trying to get my h to leave me and the threats started again. But the lie comes here, she is so mentally inmature she had my husband sign a paper stating he would never seek visitation or custody and she would never seek cs. Well she has been getting the cs for close to 2 years , so there is one lie. Well my h signed this paper back when the oc was only 3 months old. And in it he states how the whole sex act was a mistake how he had a child and was happy with his finace and did not want the oc to begin with. Well the ow took a copy of this statement signed by my h and wrote me a long detailed letter introducing herself as I have mentioned on previous posts. Well the lie comes in the fact that she says in this letter how much my h loved her and told her even though he was engaged to me he would never marry me , and how he would aways be there for her and the baby as soon as he could get rid of me. But then she goes and contridicts herself by attaching that statement in which my husband claims right from the beginning that the never wanted her or the child. How stupid is she? That is one of the reasons I have tended to believe my h and others because she just changes her story all the time to suit the mood and subject matter that she is in at the time. Another example of her studidity when she told my h that she was preg. he suggested an abortion, she said she could never do that to her baby, and then she told him, in the next sentence anyway I just had one a couple of months ago and it is not good to get them right after each other. So as you all can see they are all big liars. GABI1116<p>[This message has been edited by gabi1116 (edited March 15, 2001).]

I am sure that my co-workers are calling the mental hospital now to have me taken out of my office for laughing so loud and hard at the "hope her boobs explode" remark! Catnip, you are always so on target!<P>Zebra, cd and gabi, thanks for sharing great stories highlighting what i guess is the OW's most common attribute - their ability to lie about anything and everything.<P>Zebra, you must have infinite patience to tolerate the woman's believing that you are her new best friend. Of course, it is great for gathering info but still it must get on your nerves. I loved your remark to hubby.<P>cd, paralysis?! you must admit that is the most creative excuse that anyone has ever come up with for trapping a married man. <P>and, gabi, the woman was stupid enough to attach a letter contradicting the point she was trying to prove?!<P>i think flowerseed summed it up best -- when there is nothing upstairs, i guess that leaves a lot of room for wild fantasies to roam free!<P>thanks for the laugh ladies. I am extremely stressed out today and it was just what i needed.<P>love<BR>- heavenly

Heavenly I am glad you enjoyed all the stories. As an afterthought, I would like to mention, our ow is presently engaged, so she says and her fiance has two children from someone else. Whether he is separated, divorced, or still married for that much I have no idea. My h and I were joking the other day and we were making fun of the ow and the fact it seems like she can not just find a guy with out some type of strings. This is a sickness in it self. Boy, could she use some serious therapy. Anyway also I should take back saying that all ow are this way as I did in my last post, and say most of the ow I have read about here are. A good friend of mine was an ow, but she truely did not know the man was married. Well he wanted no part of her and the baby and she accepted that and he has no idea what she had, and she wants nothing from him. She choose to have the baby and she is raising a wonderful little boy on her own with no help mentally or finacially. OUr ow should take a lesson from her. Gabi 1116<p>[This message has been edited by gabi1116 (edited March 15, 2001).]

heavenly,<BR>Yes, paralysis. i don't know who should get the bigger booby prize, her for making up such a ridiculous story, or my h for believing it.<P>And h says that I am the one with no common sense. Hah!<BR>-cd

heavenly,<P>i guess i have patience. but to be honest. most of the time when she's babbling i'm in the chat room or checing the posts or email. only really half listening. with a lot of unhuh, oh really, wow, that's a trip, responses. only when i get curious i start asking real questions. sometimes i ask her questions to get her thinking. if that's possible.! plus i'd rather she call me than my H.<P>glad i could lighten everyone's day.<P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.