Something I have noticed that seems to happen alot is that alot of times you ow can take the time to reply to the wounded here but not the time to read through what is going on in there lives. Could you please read up on things if you are going to throw your remarks our way the ladies here have had enough pain they dont need anymore.<P>------------------<BR>A wise woman builds her house;a foolish woman tears hers down with her own hands. Proverbs 14...<p>[This message has been edited by flowerseed (edited March 24, 2001).]

Dear flowerseed,<P>Don't waste your breath. That kind of ow come here just to &$%# with people. apparantly, they no longer have a married man to &$%# with, so they try to %&$# with the next best thing -the betrayed spouses.<P>We can only hope that sooner or later they get bored and go &%#$ themselves.<P>With love,<BR>cdcollins

I have to agree with both of your posts, I really do not want to read about what any oc/ow have coming to them. I am sorry to sound rough, but I am sick of hearing about responsibility that they feel they deserve. Did they take any responsibility to prevent the preg. And I do not want to hear from them that the h should have done this, many of the ow tell the h that they have that taken care of. I do not believe this forum is a place for ow to get pity from us, or to lecture to anyone how the oc should be treated or accepted. I know there have been some ow on the forum that have treated and been treated here with respect and I think this is great, respect comes to those who dole it out. Like do onto others as you would want them to do onto you. But I have to say again this is not the place to lecture or tell the bs here how they should be treating the oc. Everyone here is different in what has happened to them , and no two people should be expected to act the same. Gabi1116<p>[This message has been edited by gabi1116 (edited March 25, 2001).]