well today I decided that I am going to cause ow as much trouble as she caused me, even her own grandparents call her a slut! I am going to be in contact with them shortly as I have found out that she is telling them that my H is single and is her boyfriend and her grandparents keep asking her why he is not living with her, She is a pshycotic freak I do believe she is very unstable, I wrote her a letter stating that she should try to give up her fantasy life and face reality maybe ty counselling for a while, bet that went over well, I am hoping that her grandparents might help out abit in this,wish me luck