I disagree with you all on how to handle the situation of a cheating spouse who creates an innocent child? Well If any of you thourally read my post, I was a spouse whose husband cheated on me many times. Who also was pressed with a possible pregnancy from another woman. I am not the OW, so why should I go visit a board for them, just because I dissagree with the rest of you. You all keep saying I should respect your positions and not judge you, but why don't you guys quit judging me and respect that I have a different opinion than you.