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You know I am getting real sick of these people trying to tear down the walls on our support group...no our family. Dont most forums have a way to block certain people from coming back...why dont we? Or at least have a way to erase these posts once they get out of hand? It is allright to get a little aggression out and sometimes it is a stress reliever, but I am even getting really irritated over these latest "child advocates". They are not listening to anything. If they did they would realize very few people on this board "hate" oc. They are here to start up a bunch of crap and I want to know how to erase their ignorant posts before people get hurt. This is supposed to be a safe place.<P>I love all of yall and cant stand knowing that these females are on here to try to hurt any of you guys.<P>Love<P>bw

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broken_wings,<P>no, i don't think we can ban them. we don't have a moderator. what we CAN do it stop replying to them. this is not the place for what they are doing, and those replying to them are only making it worse. they are not here to help ANYONE. not the children they claim to defending, no one. they are only here to satisfy some sick need of theirs to hurt others. i wish people would just stop posting to them, i know they will go away. <P>i find it weird that lurking woman has same initials as lesW. too strange. both LW.<P>happy_girl

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How do we get a moderator?<BR>

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i don't know. i really think they will go away soon if we stop talking to them. <P>happy_girl

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I have asked moderators from general board to take a look.

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Ladies:<P>I truly doubt that any moderator would shut down any of these threads. You may consider this your "family" area, but it isn't. The "antagonists" posting have points that they're presenting in a (relatively) reasonable way. If you don't agree with them, fine---either post your disagreement in a way that doesn't violate the Rules of Use of these boards, or simply ignore them.<P>They will go away if you don't respond.

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<BR>They can be annoying, sure enough, but banning them isn't the answer. Either ignore them or destroy them in debate.<P>Bystander

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A poster cannot be banned, but a moderator can assist with weeding out offensive posts. Those posts can then be removed from the forum, should Marriage Builders chose to do so.<BR>

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If we all ignore them they will leave (Yes I know how that sounds coming from me !) . I am serious. It worked a while back when we had someone coming here to stir up trouble posting as the H (or owner in his opinion) of a mail order bride. If there is a stray cat outside your door that you want to leave you wouldn't feed it would you. Let them have their say and when all they hear is an echo they will give up.


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