Put your heads together. I am sure if you guys put all the evidence together you can figure out which of you is truly in denial!<P>The BW I am referring to lives in the great state of California obviously. Have to love the roller coasters and especially the old wooden roller coaster. She thinks her husband has only cheated on her with me. (Reality is he has had quite a few) He loves her and has tried to work it out but he demands that she not see the child he loves dearly. (she does this under the guise that it is a mutual agreement as made in the POJA)He sees his daughter regularly because a father's love is stronger than and policy that he is being coerced into signing. Oh and to the BW I am referring to - just a little advice - He wants to work the marriage out and would probably open up with you and stay commited IF you stopped harrasing and coercing him into agreements that he doesn't agree with. <P>And stop lying about what is said between the two of you. He tells me that half the stuff you say on here is BS.<BR>Your Husbands OW<P>

.<P>Not worth the effort.<p>[This message has been edited by terri (edited April 21, 2001).]