I'm not sure if you saw the latest attack wherein bw's ow specifically named you, but I just read it and I want you to know I'm thinking about you.<P>I have always wondered if I would run into "our" ow here. I don't think that she knows much about computers, but one never knows.<P>Look at it this way, lsb. These are the acts of an EXTREMELY desperate woman. To come here and bait you like that is childish and meanspirited. My guess is that her pitiful secretive second-class world has completely fallen apart since you and your h have started working on your marriage. It stands to reason that if ow was happy, she wouldn't be here.<P>I didn't want to reply to bw's ow, but I wanted to let you know that I am here to support you, as are the others. Don't let her scare you away from here.<P>with love,<BR>cd

c.d.,<BR>I dont know if you seen it but this poster is lurking woman she got busted sat. She changed her location as soon as she was caught. I think lsb is to sicko probley the weakest target right now and thats who sybil thinks she can get to. I dont believe for a sec that it is lsb ow. with love flowerseed

Dear Flowerseed,<BR>I did see that good old Lurking woman/bw's ow got nailed. But just in case that Lw/bw's ow IS lsb's ow, I wanted to let her know that we're here to support her.<P>I sincerely hope that LW gets some professional help either way.<P>I think you could be right about her picking on lsb because she is vulnerable. I really hope that lsb doesn't get too upset about the whole thing.<P>Why couldn't she have picked on me instead? I would have truly enjoyed picking back, haha. Or she could have picked you. You are good at squashing bugs too!<P>with love,<BR>cd

c.d.<BR>Dont bullys always seem to choose who they pick on. I found this out quit awhile ago they never seem to want to take on anybody they think will squash em. I think we need a flyswatter this one must be a fly dont they usally spawn there young on a pile of s***. I have faith that lsb is much tougher then the lurking leach ever could imagine. The weak will go after what belongs to someone else the strong will be the ones to fight and not let that happen. with love flowerseed<P>[This message has been edited by flowerseed (edited April 23, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by flowerseed (edited April 23, 2001).]

Dear flowerseed,<BR>The really ironic part is that if LW/BW is indeed lsb's ow, she isn't accomplishing anything except to prove that lsb's marriage is getting back on track. Otherwise, the ow wouldn't feel desperate enough to come here to attack her.<P>Funny, isn't it, how some people are their own worst enemies?<P>cd

Just wanted to add my support, lsb.<BR>I am speechless that anyone could be so<BR>cold and calculating as the ow.<BR>You can see how much we care about you here.<BR>love, fluke

The way I see it...if this is LSB's other woman she is one sad, desperate, tacky, classless, cheap, purposeless wench and if she isn't she is still one sad, desperate, tacky, classless, cheap, purposeless wench.<P>Regardless to who the hell she is, she is not going to come here and make one of our own feel worse than she already does.<P>Ladies we must band together....if our moderator cannot block her well then we will BLOCK her [censored] out and give her NO REPLIES no matter what the bait. I am sick and tired of this crap and it is going to stop. This is a place of healing, filled with people in pain and to read something like this pisses me the hell off. This is OUR forum and she is going to know. NO REPLIES LADIES...NONE!!! She is but a pimple on the big [censored] of the world. INSIGNIFICANT!~

I have to admit it'm feeling sick to my stomach right now...<P>I'm sure we all wonder if we are being fools at times, trusting H's again, almost to the point of irrationality, suspicious of the slightest moment of silence, etc...<P>For someone to prey on that is simply cruel and heartless and disgusting. I would hope someone would let me know the 'truth' if there was one to know, but this board is supposed to be a safehaven, a place to heal. <P>If you were really concerned about someone's 'disillusionment' you would contact them directly, not by stalking her on a internet message board. Just more evidence that it's all b.s.<P>You know your husband, ISB, don't forget that, <BR>take care<P>DS

There is always the chance that she's lying and trying to manipulate the situation herself.<P>She's cruel and vindictive.<P>Don't buy into her sh*t... <P>Even if she's right... this is YOUR life... don't allow her to RULE it!!<P>I am so angry at that woman... the nerve!<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<BR>(a bit worse for the wear, but hanging in there)<P><B>Life <I>is</I> difficult</B>.<BR><I>The Road Less Traveled</I><BR>~M. Scott Peck

I agree with new_beginnings. Regardless of who's OW BW'sOW is (now that was a mouthful...) she cannot be trusted because of the fact that she is now knowingly trying to interfere in a marriage.<P>That makes her lower than pond scum and certainly not above lying to drive a wedge between the couple who are trying to re-commit to their marriage.<P>lsb and everyone else -- don't fall for her s**t for a minute! She's a sad, pathetic loser who is beside herself with anger that SHE LOST. That simple. She was after someone's H and didn't get him. Now, she has decided to torment other people.<P>Leelee is right. If MB can't block her then we'll block her [censored] out for sure! Not only will I not respond to BW's OW, I won't even open her posts and read them. Life is too short to fill my time with such garbage.<P>Keep strong lsb, we are all behind you.<P>love,<BR>heavenly

I am not trying to pray on anyone's marriage openly. I just want her to realize that the bs her husband is telling her is bs. She can have him, I don't want him, but I also don't like the lies that are being spread about me and my child. The fact is he tells her, me and the others whatever works for him. I did want to talk to her directly not on this board but she didn't want that. Reading the crap she has written shows that she is still being manipulated. You know I would think that you women would want to pull your head out of the sand and see the sun. Because the fact is just like her I bet most of you are still being lied to.

In the fact is I could very well be the OW number 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 , 7 and so on. Because I could name quite a few in addition to me that her husband has had a thing with.

cdcollins and everyone else, I did not see the specific post directed to me until after reading your post.For the record, I had wanted previously if the BW's OW had been implicitly targeting me in previous posts, and yesterday showed my H one of her posts. He does not believe it is her, and denies her accusations. I believe him, not blindly but because he has been with me when she alleges he has been with OC or her. If our stories sound similiar to her situation, so be it.I have written her a reply and you can see it in a later post. I do appreciate all of your support, and trust any more posts from her I will have nothing to do with.It is not worth my energy. Thanks for being part of my supportive defense.

Of course he is going to deny it! DENIAL. That is what MM do. If you really want the truth why not ask for it. And I can guarantee you he is not going to hand it over to you.

lsb, today is a calm, sunny, beautiful day where I live. I'm taking it for what it can offer me, which is strength of mind and serenity of spirit. Those are the thoughts and wishes I'm sending your way. Keep your wits about you and let the folks here shield you from the heartless one trying to cause you harm. It takes a lot of energy to be so cruel. She'll get tired of it soon.

It is so beautiful here too...<P>a warm breeze<BR>sun shining<BR>a glisten of sweat on my brow after a long winter...<P>Ah...<P>Hi lsb, you're doing fine... keep hangin'

Dear ISB,<BR>The BEST response is silence. As if someone does not exist.<P>I will pray for her exorcism, surely satan has hold of her or his mind!<P>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Darn, I am jealous - where is it calm and sunny ! In MN, it is cold and we are getting ready to build an ark. Well, I guess the end of this week we will be rewarded seventies and sunshine. It does get really nice here, honest !

Dear LSB,<P>A proverb says: "An answer when mild turns away rage."<P>You have done that and done it well. <P>The weather out in the 'bay area' is beautiful. The rain has cleared the smog. No fog here today!!!!!<P>L.

The sun is shining and the wind blowing in eastern Canada today... it was, what seemed to me, a Native Californian, the LONGEST, coldest, whitest, winter...<P>Long live sunshine!!