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Im trying to put my marriage back togather after years of dishonesty on my part and she wants nothing to so do with me. But it's so ironic that after years of being so disconnected with my wife I want nothing more than to have some sort of connection. After neglecting her emotional needs now all I want is to serve her every need. And as wierd as it may sound I changed my thinking over night. As I relized that this was for real and my giver some how saw all the pain I was causing I felt an overwhelming since of guilt and pain. But as I sit here trying to do anything I can to put the past behind and show her all I have inside. It's so ironic that as I try anything to hold my marriage togather she seems to be so far away. May I now know a little of what she felt. How Ironic?
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Joined: Mar 2002
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You won't know how she felt until you experience it for years. I hope for the sake of your marriage that you never know the hurt, neglect, pain, frustration, and helplessness your W has felt. Have you read up on the Marital States? Sounds like your W is in Withdrawal. You can find this described in the Basic Concepts. This article is for you: Why Women Leave Men
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