While h's cs modification is still set for May 3 at 1:30, the custody mediation has been pushed back to May 16th. So we have a two-week wait for that. It's just as well, i was feeling a bit overwhelmed at the idea of both taking place back-to-back like was originally scheduled. We also got copies confirming that ow's contempt hearing is going to be on April 30th. Hope they lock her up.<P>I noted on the papers that it said ow has to bring oc along to mediation AND provide someone to watch her while the private hearing is going on. So I called and left a message on ow's answering machine telling her that if she was having a hard time finding somebody to accompany her to the hearing to watch oc, I would be happy come and babysit there for her. I am quite certain that she will have her mom or sister go along to watch oc, but since ow finds my kindness to be EXTREMELY annoying, I thought it would be fun to make the offer. Anyway, I really wouldn't mind babysitting oc during the hearing, so if she does take me up on the offer, that would work too.<P>Lawyer says that he has not had any calls from the daycare director, so she must have found out that h is NOT liable for the past-due bill. Wonder how ow is going to cover it, especially once cs is reduced to a piddlin amount.<P>Well, that's all the news I have.<BR>cd<BR>P.S. k, tigger, others: The suggestion to kiss my h when I am irritated is working very well so far.

CD... I would hate to have you up against me in a situation like this! You are most likely killing that girl with kindness. <P>I am so glad that this CS stuff will get modified. I will keep you in my thoughts all day on those dates. Carolyn

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by cdcollins:<BR><B>...So I called and left a message on ow's answering machine telling her that if she was having a hard time finding somebody to accompany her to the hearing to watch oc, I would be happy come and babysit there for her...since ow finds my kindness to be EXTREMELY annoying, I thought it would be fun to make the offer...</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>too funny! I'm all for any little bit of pleasure that makes it all more bareable!!<P>that aside, I hope things go well in mediation<BR>

cd, you are truly the best! I hope I can learn lessons from you! I really do. Your sense of humor is delightful...<P>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Kill her with Kindness CD! Too cute!<BR>Ill be praying for you..<BR>Love<BR>bw

cd:<P>Your OW must be beside herself...to have her CS amount reduced to a piddily amount and have you be so kind and gracious must make her feel off balance and disarmed. You must feel like a cat who got away with the canary.<P>So May 3rd's the date, huh? I have to read your past posts from the past four weeks to catch up on all the news.<P>You sound strong and healthy. Maintain low tones, Mon ami.<P>Catnip =^^=