Jersey i read your post here you just sound like you are at your end and you sid something about running. Please don't give the OW that much power over you. She has filed so the government has all the info it needs to track yur husband down. The minute he gets a job with a paycheck or you try and but a house or get financing guarenteed teh Ow will have the police on him. Your hubby made a huge mistake but you should not have to live your life like a wanted criminal for his mistake. I hope it was just pure frustration that made you post what you did.

Yeah, I was. I just get so annoyed at all this crap. She, OW, just had OC to get my H. Or so she thought. It just gets to me sometimes. I love H dearly and have since I first saw him. He cheated on me (I didn't find out till we got the papers) and then married me AND got ME pregnant and he knew she was saying she was pregnant by him. He won't admit to knowing, but if his best friend knew then I am sure he did too. I feel like he trapped me sometimes. And now we are going through all this crap. We have only been married 13 months. We have a 6 month old son and OC is 14 months old. All this in only one year. Then he acts like a baby and can't even do anything about it without me bugging him to do it. I don't want to leave, we have family here and close by, but he says we will if something doesn't happen. He's talking out of the country though. We live with his parents and were just starting to get on our feet again when we get this enormous CS order AND he got demoted at work. UGHH I swear, I make everyone that knows me think that they have the best lives in the world.