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I am with you too Paul. You were one of the first people to respond to me when I came here in Sept. 2000. I can't imagine how exhausted you must feel from the pain and suffering you have been through. I only know of this one A that my W had, but I suspect there might have been another one a year before this one just by her behavior. It is easier for me not to know for sure, but the questions still loom. I read where your W said that she accepted Christ as her Savior..do you doubt that? I think that is great and would love for my W to come back to Him and repent for her actions. The only thing that would break my heart is if she is faking because she knows how dear your relationship is to Christ and is using this as a last resort to get you to stay. BUT, if she is genuine and is having a life changing experience..doesn't that make you want to test the waters? I will pray for you today and hope that God will give you peace in whatever decision you make. As for the money for some therapy with the Harley's..let me know where to send it, this is a time where you should set your pride aside and let those of us who have been on the receiving end of your support and advice.<BR>floored

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I walked away from computer and then I guess I forgot I had already posted....so..this is a repeat mess-up..sorry.<BR>floored<P>I am with you too Paul. You were one of the first people to respond to me when I came here in Sept. 2000. I can't imagine how exhausted you must feel from the pain and suffering you have been through. I only know of this one A that my W had, but I suspect there might have been another one a year before this one just by her behavior. It is easier for me not to know for sure, but the questions still loom. I read where your W said that she accepted Christ as her Savior..do you doubt that? I think that is great and would love for my W to come back to Him and repent for her actions. The only thing that would break my heart is if she is faking because she knows how dear your relationship is to Christ and is using this as a last resort to get you to stay. BUT, if she is genuine and is having a life changing experience..doesn't that make you want to test the waters? I will pray for you today and hope that God will give you peace in whatever decision you make. As for the money for some therapy with the Harley's..let me know where to send it, this is a time where you should set your pride aside and let those of us who have been on the receiving end of your support and advice.<BR>floored<P><p>[This message has been edited by floored (edited May 05, 2001).]

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Hey Paul,<P> Come on, Dude! Tell us how to chip in. We're family!!<P> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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Hey Paul,<P><BR> You out there??<P><BR> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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Hey Paul,<P> I'm keeping this post up!(It's the only thing I'm keepin' up.)<P> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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Hey Paul,<P> Gettin' it up ( had to take some Viagra!!)<P> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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I moved to the......I'm here, I was out of town. Sorry. Money??? ...... post, I would do the the Hyperlink thing but I've never took the time to learn how. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Hey Paul,<P> If you change your mind, let us know!! (Damn! I took that Viagra, and I'm here alone, with a glue sniffing cat!!! Hmmmm.)<P><BR> Here, kitty, kitty, kitty,<P> <P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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Paul, we are for real...willing to help. How 'bout money orders?<P>Gregg, you are just tooooooo silly! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Hey Paul,<P> Just bringin' this up to remind you of all the people here that care about you. We're praying for you.<P><BR> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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Heave, ho!!! Heave, ho!!!!<P> Haulin' in back up!<P> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

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