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#797949 05/04/01 12:30 AM
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Well, nothing has been finalized yet. The cs official was dumbfounded at the amount ow has been getting and says that it definitely is going to be reduced dramatically. But upon looking at my h's pay average from the last 6 months, he says that my claim has to be reduced as well. So they are setting up a hearing with me to do that. both claims will be reduced in proportion so that all five children (oc and my four boys) will get the same amount of money. I am not sure yet how my spousal support will factor into it. But anyway you look at it, they can only take 55% of h's pay, and at the most ow will get 1/5 of that, so her "take" is going to be far far less than what it was. I don't have an actual number yet - and won't get one until my hearing - but it looks like great news so far. and her reduction will still go back retroactively to the date h filed for it.<P>So, we definitely had a victory - we just don't know yet how much of a victory it will be. Anyway you look at it, though, ow is going to be seriously ticked off because she's only going to get a fraction of what she had been getting.<P>Thanks, everybody, for your support, thoughts, and prayers!<BR>cd

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Nice to see the justice system working, on occasion!<P>Congratulations, cd!!

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c.d.,<BR>Way to go great news. Two good outcomes in one day were on a roll. with love flowerseed

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God definately works for those who serve Him!!! Congrats CD!!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Love,<P>Tigger

#797953 05/03/01 01:22 PM
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Dear cd,<P>Just joining the others to wish you congrats on your wonderful news!<P>love,<BR>heavenly

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cd, that is great news.Any modification in CS payments is great- I would be happy if we paid anything less, but I am glad for you!

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I am soooo happy for you!!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

#797956 05/03/01 05:47 PM
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Cd,<P>it is so good to see something positive on here. lately these crashers have really gotten to me and I said I few things I probabaly shouldnt, but oh well. Love to here the good news. Stick it to her!<BR>bw

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C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S !<P><BR>I would love to be a fly on the wall when she finds out exactly how much she's being cut off! <P>Sweet justice, sweet revenge!<P>Hat's off to you CD, I knew you would do it.<P><BR>Now...... it's time to celebrate!<P><P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

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YEA!!!<P>I am so happy for you CD...I hope it will give you guys more breathing room...Congrats...

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Good job, cd! I know prayer works wonders.<P>Love,<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

#797960 05/03/01 07:39 PM
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Sometimes when everything seems the darkest, a small ray of hope cuts through the muck. I guess it's a paradox that both you and the OW got what you deserved!!! Ahhh, sweet victory.<P>Love<P>Catnip =^^=

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Congrats CD!<P>It is truely ablessing when we can say that at times that Lady justice is not blind.<P>We are few in numbers that have had cs lower or as in my case H does not have to pay anything.<P>I just wish that something could be done about the others on this forum to have cs lower.<P>A high-five to you.<P>I will continue to pray for you and everyone here.<BR>G&P


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