Hey Floored,<P>I have been wondering about you and how things are. If you are still around, and just lurking, let us know. I hope things are ok.<P>Tigger

Dear floored,<P> Hey man, let us know how you're doin'!<P> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Tigger and Gregg,<BR>Yes, I'm still here..lurking!! I have been having mostly good days now, but I thank God for this forum especially today. I came home from a hunting trip and walked in my house to a baby bassinet in the living room. My W had stayed here with our kids. She had done this about a month ago but I didn't really think it would happen again, but it did. I probably shouldn't have done it, but I snooped in her bag and found a budget for her and OM..he is paying about $750/mo in child support and she is starting to pay about $500/mo for our kids. That is so sad that two people have to pay out over $15,000/yr for being stupid. I wonder if paying that money makes any of their guilt go away? Anyway, I also found her birth control pills and a note to her brother who had written her about how bad she is screwing up her life. The note said that she realized she had hurt me beyond belief and that she lives with that every day, BUT...she hasn't been happier than she is right now in a long time..yada, yada, yada...! She also said that OM is an amazing father to OC and is glad OC has OM. She said that OM is very gracious to let her use his car for 5 days per week to come see the kids. That struck me as funny because how could you not be an amazing father if you only got to see your child 2 days/wk? Anyway, this whole mess really got to me and bummed me out big time. I left my W a note that she is sending the wrong message to the kids by staying here...she wrote back and said there was no "MESSAGE". Her cup of stupidity floweth over!! Pray for me friends, my roller coaster hit a pretty big dip, but I know it'll go back up soon.<BR>Floored

dear floored,<P>i am so sad for you. i am sending you my prayers to get through this difficult time. i don't think your wife has realized what she is losing. keep your head up. your kids are so lucky to have such a great daddy!<P>love, happy_girl

Dear Floored,<BR>Don't you wonder if it will ever stop? You DO sound better and I'm happy for that.<BR>Great to hear from you again.<P>God Bless.<P>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Dear floored,<P>Glad that days are better for you. Just don't forget that you always have your old friends here at the forum if you need us.<P>As for your wife, she seems to have missed a lot of messages ...<P>love,<BR>heavenly