If so, please post .

i am! and my H is foreign too!!<BR>email me if you would like happy_girl_az@yahoo.com<P>happy_girl<p>[This message has been edited by happy_girl (edited May 09, 2001).]

My ow is I believe American but from another country. Is that what you wanted to know? what are your issues?

Ijust think that it makes it worse for me that she is here on a student visa,came here 4 months pregnant(without immingration knowing) and know is living off of our money. She has this attitude like America and Americans are this group of inbred idiots that are beneath her.SHe can get her [censored] back across the Atlantic as fas as I'm concerned. She came here when my H sponsered her to go to school.We wer separated at the time. There's now way she could be living here on her own. He has bought her cars ,all of which she has neglected and ruined.Without the amount of money he gives her monthly she couldn't survive here.I say let her go back. She also doesn't have any additional rights just becasue her child was born here.She is still a non-immigrant. I am just pissed tonight!

blue,<BR>forgive me if this is a dumb question, but if she's no longer in school, can't you just point her out to immigration for deportation? Is she getting more ch-support than she would get if she were legal? If your H isn't POJAing the XOW/OC situation, is it time for PlanB? (I guess that's more than 1 question)<BR> <BR>I'm sorry for your pain,<BR>J

Jenny,<P> When she first arrived pregnant,Icalled immigration.Iwas told that they have more important things to do than to hunt down a pregnant woman and trow her out of the country.They didn't care. She is still in scholl ,frivolously getting her ph.d, in English(ha,ha,ha). She doesn't even speak that well,but they still gave her a teaching job at the university.I wonder who she screwed to ge that job? Anyway, my H knows nothing about Marriage Builders. We have never had any agreement about the situation.I hav ebeenleft out.I haven't seen or heard form her in almost a year. My H hasn't seen the oc in almost 2.5 months. He gives her way more money than any court would order him to pay.H e says money doesn't mean much to him. She always threatens if he reduces the amount she won't be able to live and will have to go back.What an f'in pity. She has threatened ,harrassed and extorted money from him, but he still won't do anything legal.Not even a paternity test.