Dear Heavenly, <P>I just can't seem to visit here as often as I'd like, and when I do, I can't always read all the newests posts. Anyway, my love and congratulations to you and H on the newest addition to your family. Please take good care of yourself, dear Heavenly. <P>love, anniem<P>

Dear anniem,<P>Thank you so much for your good wishes!<P>I am sorry to read your post where you say that you are in limbo land. Now that you are learning about your H's personality problem and you are getting help, I am hoping that things will start to improve for you.<P>There have been some really great posts to lsb lately since she has found it difficult to get into gear and start fighting for her marriage. I wish you would read those at least, even if you don't have much time.<P>So much of this situation is within your control, as long as you want your marriage to survive. In some ways, it is our own minds that stop us from being happy again. Many of us are getting past that and we would love to help the rest of you do the same.<P>You are a sweet and terrific lady, anniem. You deserve some happiness and I believe that you can still find that happiness with your H. Work on it a little more, don't give up. And, come here as often as you can to share what you are going through. We're all here for you.<P>love,<BR>heavenly