Dear Moderators,<P>Tigger4jdt has tried to reach you through e-mail about a serious situation on the Forum.<P>Happy_girl wrote to some of us by e-mail to inform us that she had been banned yesterday from posting and registering with MB. This must be a mistake!<P>Happy_girl has been with the Forum for a long time and she has offered support and comfort to all who come here, even under the most trying circumstances. Some of us are convinced that you must have meant to ban happeemom -- who you were investigating a few days ago. <P>Happy-girl is so sad at the thought of being banned by her support group. She has been one of the major advocates to get the group back to normal and it is so unfortunate that this happened to her of all people.<P>Would you please review the situation as quickly as you can and re-instate happy_girl. All of us on this site can vouch for her that she has been an inspiration and a comfort to so many on this site.<P>Would you also please issue an apology on MB to rectify the situation? <P>Thank you for your urgent attention. <P>best regards,<BR>heavenly

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This has to be a mistake. Happygirl is an asset to this forum!!! Please rectify this problem as soon as you can...Happygirl belongs here!

<B>heavenlybody26, HurtButCoping & Leelee,</B><P>Thank you for bringing this to my/our attention. We are looking into the matter. <P><BR><P>------------------<BR><B>Xarelel</B><BR><I>Moderator of Pregnancy/Child Forum <BR>& CO-Moderator of Recovery Forum</I>

Just adding my vote for Happy Girl. <BR>She has been absolute assest to the forum.<BR>I hope she can get back on in no time.<BR>Take care Happy Girl. Love, fluke

Hey guys, <P> Just got back on. Happy girl banned?!!! This has to be a mistake, right??? How can she be banned, she's our bud!!<P><BR> God bless you, Happy Girl RN,<BR> hope you're back soon!<BR> <P>------------------<BR>Gregg

<B>Hello,</B><P>Apparently there was a system error that did not allow <B>Happy_girl</B> to post. She has <B><I>not</I></B> been banned from this site at all. <P>Please if any of you can e-mail her and let her know that all should be back to normal now. I would appreciate it very much. I do not have access to her e-mail address at this moment. Have her try to reply or start a thread. Either one should be test enough to see if indeed she can get back on the site.<P>When I get home from work (late this evening) I will check in and make sure all has gone well? Earlier if I get another stolen moment to do so.<P><B>We are very sorry for an inconvenience to any of our valued members here.</B><P>Again thank you for alerting me to this situation. <BR><P>------------------<BR><B>Xarelel</B><BR><I>Moderator of Pregnancy/Child Forum <BR>& CO-Moderator of Recovery Forum</I>

Whew, that's a relief!<P>Thanks, Xaralel!<BR>-cd

Thanks Xarelel,<P> Just e-mailed her.<P> God bless you, <BR><P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Thank you for straightening out the problem, Xarelel.<P>We will be sure to let Happy_girl know!<P>

Thank you, Moderators...we love our Happy Girl. We'd be lost without her.<P>Catnip =^^=

Yes, THANK YOU so much. Happy_girl is such a blessing to all of us, I would hate to see her go!!<P>Tigger

I hope that this has been resolved. I will also check in from time to time in order to be certain that this situation has been taken care of.<P>------------------<BR><B>Tempest</B>, Moderator<BR>Marriage Builders Infidelity Forums:<BR><I>General Questions II, Just Found Out...,<BR>Plan A/Plan B, In Recovery</I> <BR>and <I>Read-Only Posts</I>

I think the ban should be in place for happee not happy.

Hi everyone. Thanks so much to everyone who posted here or emailed me. I got so many emails, I haven't had a chance to respond to them all. I was so upset yesterday, and the response from the server was that my ISP address had been banned from posting to any of the MB forums. I was so shocked that I didn't even think about the happeemom or mmlilgirl thing, take both and you could get happygirl kind of. <P>I thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for the responses and vouching for me. It made me cry to read all your emails. But they were happy tears. I know I have been upset that this forum isn't what it used to be, but you have shown me that it is. All families change, not always the way we want them to, but it happens.<P>I just got home from my interview and grocery shopping so I have to fix me some dinner. <P>To Xarelel, thanks for checking into things. I did try to post several times only to get the message that my ISP address had been banned, and I could no longer post or register at MB. I did email the administrator. Thanks for checking it out though!<P>happy_girl