I am new to this site, you ladies are great support. I have been married for 12 years to my highscool sweetheart, we have a 10 year old son and 9 year old daughter. My husband had an affair with a co-worker, affair produce a boy now 10 months. I discover the affair and child by accident through his computer on November 2000. You can imagine my shock. This past six months have been very strenuous to say the least. <p>[This message has been edited by mina29 (edited May 21, 2001).]