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I have been married for less than a year.
<small>[ September 15, 2003, 09:45 AM: Message edited by: Jane092303 ]</small>
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Jane,
I answered on your other thread, but on this one you explained more clearly.
I think you can easily block him from entering your home. You may need legal assistance to do it in some states, but since it has not been the "marrital home" and he is not an owner or lessor, you are in a stronger position.
In my opinion, he is a fool if he tries it - because it's not going to help him save his marriage.
-AD
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Whose name is on the lease/mortgage/title?
If his name is not on it, I think you can keep him out.
And if he is not behaving appropriately as your husband, you might want to consider no longer having sex with him. If he's having a physical affair, you could be setting yourself up for an STD. If he's just using you for sexual purposes, meeting that need might not be conducive to improving his respect for you and his attitude toward the marriage.
Do you know about plan A and plan B?
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