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I need help. Just found out H had a 3-way one night stand with a girl we had only met 1X. No protection used. I am 7 months pregnant. It's only been a week and I can't seem to quit acting like everythings ok. I'm mad, and hurt, but can't seem to show it. What's wrong with me? I do feel like it's partially my fault for being overweight for the past 6 yrs. but I know deep down he is the one who messed up. He wants nothing to do with her ever again, and I believe that, but I still think about her constantly. Help me.
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this is not giving up...do you have aol?
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Jean,<BR>You should try posting at General Board. We're a nice bunch here but most of us are dealing with the Other Person being pregnant, (or getting our spouse pregnant or being pregnant by an affair), rather than just being pregnant by our spouse. <P>I'm sure you're devastated and need to take special care of yourself at this time. I was 8mo pregnant when my H confessed. It seems a common problem. Anyway, my prayers are with you and I hope you get lots of help at Newcomer Board or General--there's a great welcome list at Just Found Out board!<P>Best wishes,<BR>J
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Jean<BR>I was 5 1/2 months pregnant when I found out of ow/oc and was devastated. I wasn't able to prepare the room or go thru the clothes my sisters had given me...thank God for my sisters.They were such a big help. They bought the curtains washed the clothes put them away...called me every day.<BR>Even if there is no OC involved...this is very painful...if you want to talk about your feelings about your pregnancy, let me know. Alot of people helped me in that they gave me hope that I would be able to love our child even in the storm that he was born into...and they were right...he is the one that keeps me sane. HE was born out of love! Let me know if I can help...I usually check in daily here...weekends are hard though.<BR>God Bless...NGU<BR>
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