It's final. The Judge wiped out in five minutes what I worked 9 years for. Talk about deflating.<P>One day at a time. One day at a time.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Paul Moyers:<BR><B>It's final. The Judge wiped out in five minutes what I worked 9 years for. Talk about deflating.<P>One day at a time. One day at a time.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR> Prayers are with you.<P>

(((((((((((((((((((((((Paul))))))))))))))))))))))))<P><BR>(((((((((((((((((((((Amanda))))))))))))))))))))))))<P><BR>one day at a time...........<P>Dylan<P>------------------<BR>"The journey into darkness has been long and cruel, and you have gone deep into it."<BR>~ A Course in Miracles

I'm sorry Paul.<P>God bless.

(((((Paul))))) and (((((Amanda)))))<P>I'm sorry It's very sad - always.

Dear Paul,<P>May God bless you and give you strength to rebuild your life. My prayers are with you too.<P>love,<BR>heavenly

One more thing,<P>That judge did not wipe out anything but your legal tie to your wife. The bad times were surely bad, but the good times must have been also wonderful. None of us is promised forever. Remember fondly the good that you brought to this world, to friends and family because of your marriage.<P>You took a step that you thought would last forever. Sadly, it didn't. But that will never change the love that was there. Life IS a cycle. You will find love again because you need it to make you human and because you, personally, deserve it so much.<P>love,<BR>heavenly

Hey Paul,<P><BR> Those nine years are yours, they are in your heart. No one can ever take that away. The memories are yours, forever. ( I found that over time, I tended to forget the bad ones!)<P> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Hey Paul,<P> " Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done."<P> Being raised Catholic, I'll bet I've said that passage ten thousand times, and never really thought about what it means. <BR> I think it means the script has already been written. Our Father may allow us the luxury of a few trivial embelishments, but, the Creator is about a billion steps ahead of us.<P> Maybe the best we can do is pray for acceptance of Gods will. Sometimes I think understanding it is beyond human comprehension. <P> I guess what I'm trying to say is, when it seems to much to bear, give it back to Him. He is the one that takes care of it all, anyway!<P> God bless you, you went above and beyond,<BR> <P>------------------<BR>Gregg

My prayers are with you both.<BR>Love<BR>broken_wings

My prayers for you Paul.<P>happy_girl

Sending BIG HUGS and lots of prayers!<BR>NGU

Hey Paul,<P> If I keep gettin' it up for you, people are going to think we're an item. ( Hey, don't knock it, bisexuallity opens up your dating prospects 100%!!)<P><BR> God bless you,<P><BR> I can't even believe I wrote this. Truly disturbing!<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Paul,<P>Paul, <P>I am so sorry. I can't imagine how painful this must be for you and yet, maybe a bit of a relief also. I don't believe that God has forbidden divorce (remarriage yes), but those of us who are the victims of our spouse's adultery have been special dispensation for divorce because the other has already broken the holy covenant. I know that divorce was not the path you would have chosen, but it appears you were given little choice. I know that your wife is a young Christian as she recently claims, but she has strayed far, far from God's path and needs to work seriously on straightening out her life. <P>Please remember, also that divorce does not rule out reconciliation in the future. This is no limit to the transforming power of the Grace of God. He works in all of us and he can and will continue to work in Amanda.<P>I pray that you are as strong in faith as your name sake Paul. May this be your moment on the road to Damascus. I pray that God will work His will and healing even through the difficult times in your life. Picture yourself being gently held in the palms of His tender hands.<P>Mrs. Job (aka MJ)

Paul,<P>My prayers and thoughts are with you. You did your best, now put you cares in God Hands and let him lead you to where he feels you need to go.<P>**Even in the mist of trouble, praise God for what he has done, is doing and will be doing.<P>God has something better in store for you.<P>Take care and Blessing to you always.<P>G&P

Hey Paul,<P><BR> Got some steaks on the grill, you free?<P> God bless you, <P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Angel wings enfold you as you heal,<BR>J

Five minutes huh Paul? Oh my! I know you're hurting. I hope you soon feel the sunshine on your face and learn to smile again. You deserve it dear man...<P>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Hey Paul,<P><BR> Just hangin' out with my son, got a brew with your name on it. You busy???<P><BR> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Hi Paul,<P>My thoughts and prayers are with you. I don't understrand why any of this has happened to any of us. One would think that with all the hatred and ugliness in the world, God would want loving relationships to survive, but it is not for us to second-guess God. I do believe that He has a reason for all things, and our faith is what sustains us and keeps us going. When my son gets really sad or angry about the situation, I remind him that God has blessed us richly in our lives. Maybe this is our "test of faith," and I don't intend to flunk the test!<P>Kepp posting, dear Paul. We are here for you.<P>love, <BR>anniem<P>