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I went to take the boys to Amanda this morning so that I could go to work and guess who had spent the night there...you got it...OM #4.<P>Jerking my / this boards chain? Probably. Thought you might find that interesting.
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Paul,<P>I haven't been able to read up on too much history, but it sounds like you have tried EVERYTHING to save your marriage.<P>I am so sorry this has happened to you. It scares the He** out of me that it could actually happen to me, or any of us.<P>Prayers to you for strength and wisdom!!!<P>Love,<BR>MoJo
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Paul,<BR>Glad you followed your heart this time nobody deserves what you have delt with. I almost feel sorry for your ex she is one messed up lady. I wonder if maybe she needs a little sex ed on s.t.d. How sad that people screw there lives up so bad she has a long rough road ahead of her. Your a good man good things await you hang in there. with love flowerseed
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Well Paul,<P>I guess that seals the deal. I am sorry for what you have had to go through and I am sorry that Amanda wasn't serious. Apparently, she wasn't. I don't foresee a very good life for her. <P>God Bless,<P>JL
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Paul,<P>I am so sorry. It seems that your W has some big issues she needs to deal with. My prayers for you that your heart will heal, and that one day, when you are ready again, that you will find a woman worthy of your love. Take care.<P>happy_girl<P>one more thing, who are the kids with?? i hope they are with you, she is not showing a very good example to her children.<p>[This message has been edited by happy_girl (edited May 25, 2001).]
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happy_girl: I do have custody. Even the youngest. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Actually it's joint, but I'm the primary residential parent<p>[This message has been edited by Paul Moyers (edited May 25, 2001).]
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Paul, <P>Good for you, wonderful for your children. You are in my prayers.<P>happy_girl
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Hey Paul,<P><BR> Damn! Sounds like she is doing her best to kill any affection you have left!<P> I'm sorry, man.<P><BR> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg
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Paul,<P>Now, now... she's probably so broken up about the divorce that she needed someone to keep her company. And the <B>really</B> sad comment is that this is probably exactly how her brain works.<P>I'm not surprised. I saw lots of words about how she didn't want the divorce, but nothing concrete about how she was going to prevent it from happening, or how she'd work to make the marriage better. I don't think that she's doing this to intentionally harm you---she has a problem, and she hasn't hit bottom yet---when she does, perhaps she'll get some help.<P>God bless. I'm glad that you w2re able to establish yourself as the residental parent. Even (especially) for the youngest. You're a good man, Paul.<P>Now stay away from women and romantic relationships for the next 6 months...<P>
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Dear Paul...<P>I know you know this a not a commentary about you but a sad one about Amanda.<P>Some women confuse sex and love and use sex as a way to feel 'worthy' when the end result ends up making them feel worthless.<P>I am sorry for your losses, Paul.. Truly. I know how hard you struggled and worked to save your marriage. But, Amanda is the real loser in this and I have a lot of sympathy for her. She reminds me of that old Steely Dan song where they say "the things you think important I can't understand" and that other line about not recognizing the diamonds (you) and their worth...it's early and my head is filled with today's "To Do" list, but you get my drift.<P>The whole thing is tragic, Paul, but you will emerge wiser and with your dignity intact.<P>God bless you, Paul...you are in my prayers.<P>Catnip =^^=
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