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#799664 05/26/01 08:23 PM
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Our first visit with Darling is tomorrow (Sunday) at 3:00. I am getting nervous. I know ow will be there, even though the visit is at her mother's home. Prayers (for things to go smoothly and for me to keep my sanity no matter what ow does/says [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] ) would be appreciated.<P>I'll be so glad once this first one is done with. After that, it should get easier, I think. I'll be spending the night at my mom's afterwards so that i can visit my grandmother on Monday, but I will post about how it went when I get back Monday night.<P>Thanks,<BR>cd

#799665 05/26/01 09:01 PM
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CD,<P>prayers are headed your way...<P>happy_girl

#799666 05/26/01 09:05 PM
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I will never have that grace cd.....God touch your 6 ft. shoulders tomorrow!!!!!!<P>You are the "woman"!<P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

#799667 05/26/01 10:26 PM
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Best of luck CD. We have had visitation and I have met OW and spent hours with her. It wasn't as bad as I thought. She was more afraid of me, than I of her. As well she should be. We have nothing to be ashamed of and they do. If they have any conscience at all, they will know that.<P>Prayers coming your way. Do you have to drive 3 hours each way for this?<P>Yikes!<P>Mrs. Job

#799668 05/26/01 10:43 PM
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Hi - I for one am very interested in how things went. What type of visitation do you have worked out? Do you pay child support? If you have children how did you handle that? Good luck and prayers are sent your way....<BR> Kris

#799669 05/26/01 11:00 PM
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Dear CD,<P>There is no need to worry, you will get through just fine. You are a caring and giving person and your heart is in the right place. Your feelings will guide you.<P>My prayers are with you.<BR>love,<BR>heavenly

#799670 05/27/01 12:12 AM
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Hey Diz,<P><BR> You are the Icewoman, you will be awesome! <P> Flashback to mediation! You were too cool.<P> <BR> God bless you, <P>------------------<BR>Gregg

#799671 05/28/01 12:07 AM
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Hey Babe!!! Stay cool! Gregg is right.....you have it all under control. Prayers are headed your way....<P>Love<BR>bw

#799672 05/28/01 12:19 AM
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Hey CD,<P>Sorry to get to this late, but have been having a blast with my parents!<P>I will be praying for you. You are probably on the road right now, but I know that you know I am praying for you, as is everyone else. I know that you can do this, and Darling will be a better person for it. Look forward to your update tomorrow night.<P>Love,<P>Tigger

#799673 05/27/01 09:53 PM
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Yikes. That came up fast, cd.<P>Yeah, I agree, the first visit will be the toughest. After that things should settle into a kind of routine, hopefully. But, even if the visit is 'tense', you can reach deep within yourself, as you have done so well before, and come off cool, calm and sure of yourself.<P>We are all praying it goes well for you, cd...you certainly have an amazing attitude and a wonderful style.<P>Love<P>Catnip =^^=

#799674 05/29/01 12:33 AM
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Hey CD,<P>I hope all went well yesterday! I will be checking back in again before I go to bed tonight. We have a full day planned with my parents, so I won't be able to check until then. I look forward to reading your expressive words about Darling and your visit with her.<P>Love,<P>Tigger

#799675 05/28/01 03:22 PM
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c.d.,<BR>Looks like I'm a little late on this hope everything went well. I have faith in ya you will do just fine.<BR> with love flowerseed

#799676 05/28/01 05:08 PM
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CD, how'd it go?! I know you did great!! Is someone watching your boys for it?

#799677 05/28/01 05:14 PM
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Hi Cd,<P>Hope your first visit went well!<BR>Just think soon enough she will be<BR>brought to you for the weekend, right?<BR>I hope your grammy is doing well, too!


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