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#799759 05/29/01 12:23 AM
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does anyone here ever contemplate revenge against ow? I do, I imagine all kinds of horrible things happening to her, I hope I am not tyhe only one to think like this

#799760 05/29/01 01:01 AM
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hey fizzpop, you aren't the only one. there are many things i think about doing to her, but would never follow through. it helps get me thru sometimes, just to think of what i could do... i think this is normal fizzpop. we are only human...<P>happy_girl

#799761 05/29/01 07:58 AM
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Your best revenge is rebuilding your marriage and getting on with your life. Of Course your H does have some responsibility, but knowing that your marriage is intact and maybe better in spite of her is the best possible revenge. <BR> The other thing is forgiveness, forgive her and him, but that does not you have to forget. By forgiving her/him you let go of toxins/poisins that will ultimately harm you.<BR>Get on with your life, she is just an annoying nuiscance you might tolerate. Good luck, Texasgirl

#799762 05/29/01 09:07 PM
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Fizzpop,<P>Oh yeah..I even found a revenge website with all kinds of good ideas. I would never carry then out but as fantasies they were GREAT! It will pass...<BR>Love<BR>bw


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