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Just a quick update.Got an email from H now-says it is all a pack of lies, and it is not true. He sounded upset that someone,either OW or a friend, sent me something to get me upset. He said it was lousy timing too, on eve of our get away to reconnect and rejuvenate. Had a lousy day at work, so this didn't add to it. I hope the messages keep coming, in a way, so he can decide she and OC just aren't worth it at all and maybe he will then write her a true good bye letter. Anyway, I am so relieved-so grateful to H, told him I loved him, had packed for weekend, I actually went to a sex store and got a sex game to spice up the weekend and some bubble bath. I hope it does the trick! thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. And I have blocked this new email address from my machine. If I get others, I am going to change internet service provider and change my address. Thanks to all! Your prayers were answered!

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LSB, keep fighting the good fight. You win twofold when you have a fabulous weekend with your Husband. Your marriage wins and you win against this emailer. Because it's obvious she wants you to have an aweful time.<P>Keep your chin up girl. We are all here for you.<P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

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Ditto Zebra!<BR>You're doing the right thing Isb! Don't let the badguys win! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Have a GREAT weekend--make happy memories!

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The email you received is a desperate act of a desperate person. It HAS to be OW or one of her friends. Most reasonable people would not contact someone they don't know that well with that kind of news. And the details are just a little too cozy. Someone is trying to make you miserable and drive a wedge between you and your husband. I'll give you 3 guesses.....Don't let them!! Go away and have a nice weekend enjoy and don't let them spoil it. They are showing their true colors. Stand tall<BR> Kris

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Hi there Lsb,<P>Sorry I am late, but I am here now.... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>Just wanted to say I agree with everyone else....someone with cruel intentions...hope you have a wonderful getaway with hubby. Sending prayers for your family and for ow and her half witted friends to get a life of their own.

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lsb,<P>Please email me - I have a question I would like to ask you. tag_yerit@yahoo.com<P>Thank you!<BR><P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>

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ISB enjoy yourself! Sex game, huh? Have a great time sweetie.<P>So happy H e-mailed you. He really is thinking about you.<P>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by lsb:<BR>[B]I am sure by now you are with hubby having a great time but I wanted to add mycongrats.

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ISB,<P>I was so happy, to see this post this morning.<BR>Please NEVER believe anything that is not signed.<BR>you did the right thing by forwarding it to Hubby..<BR>Now he can deal with it, or at least he can see what you have had to put up with. That is more than any of us could.<P>GO and have a great weekend..enjoy each other..and dont have too much "HEAVY" conversation. focas on the two of you..you have way too much history together...<BR>Have Fun (((HUGGS))) MC

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Ahhhh, revenge is sweet, is it not? And you don't have to do a thing except reconnect with your husband. <P>lsb, your husband is seeing the OW for what she is and he will find her offensive and disgusting. It's time to detach from thinking of her and her wickedness and concentrate on basking in your husband's desire and willingness to recommit. <P>So, did you wear a disguise when you went into the sex shoppe? Hahaha<P>Have a wonderful, wonderful weekend.<P>Love<P>Catnip >^..^<<P>PS you sound good, lsb!


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