Ow's child support was lowered dramatically for the time between when h filed for modification and the time ow lost custody. For that time period, she is entitled to only a fraction of what was originally ordered. To make things even better, her case was dropped retroactive to the day she lost custody, so for the time being, h doesnt have to pay her one red cent! And if/when she regains custody of oc, she is stuck with the lower amount! <P>Anything that h overpaid to her during the past month has been held and will go towards my "arrears", so we should be collecting a refund of that money sometime soon.<P>Ow is totally going to freak out when she finds out that not only is her amount lowered, but as of now, she can't collect ANYTHING!!!<P>And even if she does refile later, the amount is set low enough that h and I can actually afford it. I am so happy. We may actually be able to pay bills for a change.<P>Thanks for your prayers and support.<P>I'll have to let you all know how ow acts when we go to visit oc on sunday. I'm sure she's not going to be too pleasant once she finds out that she's been kicked off the cs gravy train.<P>Much love,<BR>cd

That's so terrific!! I'm really happy for you, CD. Things are looking brighter....Sunday'll be a breeze for you.

CD, things just keep getting better and better and better! WOW! Congradulations! It's nice to know good things happen sometimes, hunh?! Keep up the good work!

c.d.<BR> Thats great wont it be nice just to be able to live. This whole thing sure does make a person thankful for things that most people just take for granted doesnt it. Good luck on your visit Sun. with love flowerseed

Way to go CD!!! I am SOOOO happy that things are continuing to work out for you! Don't sweat Sun. Just continue to kill her with kindness, and enjoy your time with Darling! Definately keep us informed as to the OW's reaction. I can't wait to hear about it!!<P>Love<P>Tigger

oooooo sooooooo many success stories on this board, I can't stand it. I'm sooooooo excited for you CD. It just keeps getting better.<P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

That's wonderful news CD!! In the short time I've retuened to posting you've been very helpful. I'm pleased for you. I came into the story late. If Ow doesn't have custody who does? Also - in a few posts to me you made reference to a few other things. Were you ever in Plan B? I know you said something about not making it easy on H when he was gone. If so how long was it? Did H express remorse right away?<P> I'm so glad for you and will be curious when you have visitation on Sun. Good Luck<BR> Kris

Hey Diz,<P><BR> Awesome, just awesome!!!<P><BR> God bless you,<P>------------------<BR>Gregg

Great news cd....you are my hero.<P>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Wow Cd that is the best news for you!!!<P>Finally...justice...<P>Enjoy yourselves!<P>take care, fluke

There is a God, and He loves you.<P>What a wonderful way for me to start my day...thanks for the uplifting news.<P>Love<P>Catnip =^^=

Oh Cd that is just wonderful news! Just wonderful!