Thank you ladies for your prayers it work, actually I just got back from Dear Friend's Mom house. After we were done in court my H and I went to give her the condolences.<P>Let me start from the begining I went with my H to court but didn't went inside, instead I stay in the car waiting for him just in case OW would cause trouble. <P>The case was Adjourned to August 9, for three reasons,<BR>H told me, 1.OW brought OC to court when she was told last time by the judge, she couldn't bring him and she need it to find a babysitter. 2.OC was crying really loud, and moving too much that the judge told her another reason why this case is being adjourned, child is misbehaving terrible and I can't concentrate. 3.The father of this child is not working. <P>My h also told me that the judge was so annoy with ow that he did not let her even talk, and she had to apologize for bringing oc. My h also told me Ow did try to play the guilt trip, which he doesn't fall for it anymore, as he was sitting down in waiting room OW brought Oc to my h and told him here take care of your son, and told the child this is your daddy, like he really understand, he's just 11 months old. Very low class woman.

Dear Mina, <BR> Manipulation, Manipulation, Manipulation!!!! She thinks people are going to feel sorry for her and she really just looks like someone who can't get their act together. Just look at it as desperate manipulation by a low class individual. She is showing her true colors. And you are showing what "class" can do. Glad things went well for you.<BR> Kris

Hey mina,<BR>Good for you, kiddo! The more she makes a fool of herself, the less likely the judge is to sympathize with her. Or to believe anything she tells him, for that matter.<P>Keep up the great work.<P>If I were you, I'd make a point of reporting her accusations to somebody, too, between now and the next hearing. Get some documentation going about her threatening you about claiming child support.<P>-cd

Mina,<P>I so glad that the judge got to see your OW at her finest. I'm so sure that he will remember all of her idotic behaviours when he finally rules on CS, etc.<P>Glad you two are taking the high road and remaining professional through all of this.<P>Best of Luck,<BR><P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Dear quakermom,<BR>You are so right, ow is so manupulative,& psychotic. You can imagine the things ow has done to cause problems for me and h. The things she has done, I don't think none of your husbands xow's has done. This one is really psychotic, when my h told her that I found out about the affair & oc. he told her that he want it to be with his wife & family, the next day after DD she cut her face with a pair of sccisors, and then took pictures of herself and went to get an order of protection, and accused my husband of doing it, which he almost got arrested for that. She had to withdrew charges since my H was at work, and there was no way that he could have done that. But you will think that H will see her true colors, no at all. It took him 6 months to come out of the fog.<P><BR>Dear CD, <P>Thank you, OW thought the judge was going to sympathize, with her, if he told her not to bring the child was for a reason. What a fool, she made of herself, ha,ha. I am going to follow your advice in re: child support while leaving with my h.

Good for you Mina! What a nutty ow is right! Did the cut ruin her beautiful face? heh...heh...heh...lol<P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Dear Gemini, <BR>unfortunately, the whore did not leave any scar on her face. She's not pretty at all, looks older for her age. I am a lot prettier than her, this coming from h friends. H friends do not understand why he got involve with an older woman, when she's not even pretty.