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#801265 06/27/01 04:39 PM
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But you are calculating everything as if this person always has the "perfect" cycle. I for one do not. I had not had a period in 4 months when I showed up pregnant with my first child. I think that people's body's vary and it is probably best to wait for a paternity test to make any factual statements. <P>I wish things were as black and white as that, then I could get rid of my OW because she too had sex with another person. But, because of my own experience I think it is best to wait and see.

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Sorry, I meant this to be a reply but somehow posted a new topic. I am very new to all this internet stuff.

#801267 06/27/01 05:30 PM
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Sadeyes,<BR>Thin you meant this post for me. I will stake my 17 years in High risk OB on everything I said based on the info.<P>NO WOMAN HAS "PERFECT CYCLES". I do not have perfect 28 day cycles I have 25-27 day cycles..BUT you can still pinpoint date of conception by dates. as far as what happened to you makes no sense, you got very lucky having your child. your hormones work together to build up your uterus and nourish it. when you have a period it is getting rid of the waste (yuckky stuff) so it can renourish itself for implantation. without a period it is almost impossible to ovulate (unless you are breastfeeding), but that is another hormonal topic.<P>NOW she had normal cycles (though she was normally 2-3 days late) which probably meant her cycles were 27-30 days...that is a normal cycle just like my 25-27 days..see???. Joyd son had sex with her 2 weeks after Ovulation would have occurred. now how you got PG stumbs me cuz if you dont have a period.. you normally will not ovulate nor visa versa... unless you were going to have a period cuz you finally ovulated ...in other words you finally ovulated if you had not conceived, you would have finally had a period 12-16 days after ovulation (this is a luetal phase).You were very lucky you did not Miscarry. You child implanted in a uterus that did not have 4 months of shedding. and mysad if it were not so accurate (pg wheels, and dates) we would NEVER be able to establish a due date. I bet you had about 4 US to establish yours. otherwise you would never have had one (due date). US is only accurate with a 2 week period, and the early US are the most accurate ones.... I will stick to my first posts. I will concur that nothing is 100%, but it more than likely Joyd son is not the father, as long as the girls dates are accurate (she seemed to have good dates). MC<P>

#801268 06/28/01 11:23 PM
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Yes your right I actually had six ultrasounds, and they kept changing my due dates! My pregnancy was very unexpected as we had been trying to conceive for several years and had been told I did not ovulate and was infertile. I had many problems with the pregnancy and ended up having Toxemia and bein induced. After childbirth I hemmoraged (sp?) and had a VERY retained placenta. The doctors had to manualy go in and get it out. Then one month later I hemmoraged on Thanksgiving and had to have surgery. They are not sure how much damage was done but said that they barely kept from puncturing my uterine wall to get everything out. After having my son it has now been six years and I have had only two periods, and the doctors say I will probably never have another child. Which is ok with me I am just happy for the maricle that I do have! Sorry if this is more detail than some of you wanted :-).


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