A little piece of good news. H and ex-OW have no contact, but H speaks to her parents a couple of times per week as they are babysitting while OW works. The conversations are not very long but H gets an update on OC, gets to coo at the baby, and occassionally ex-OWs parents will say something about ex-OW.<P>OW went on her first date since birth of OC 15 months ago! Yeah! Hurray! I am glad to see her getting on with her life. She deserves better than she has seen fit to serve herself from the banquet of life. With all her talents and assets and all she could have chosen, she chose the scraps that fall from the table of a married couple! But more than that, I think that her getting on with her life will make life much easier for us. She will begin to forget about my H and begin building a better life without him. <P>I know, I know that I am jumping in way too fast here, but maybe she will marry and maybe a husband of hers might want to adopt OC. H and I have said that we would say yes if there were a kind and loving father to adopt her and if he came around very early (first 3 years) of OC's life. Think of how much simpler life would be.<P>Alright, I'll slow down now. I know I am way ahead of myself. One date and I have her married already. I think we should go to the wedding and I'll give her away. *wicked, wicked grin*<P>MJ

Cool beans Mrs. J! And give her away... you're too funny!

Jenny... i used to say cool beans all the time in high school. i hadn't heard that for years. flash back!<P>Mrs. Job, I'd like to be at that wedding. I think we all secretly wish our OW would just get married to the most awesome guy in their world (because we are married to the most awesome guy in our world). And after they got married that awesome guy would love and adore the OC and adopt them for their own. <P>Z.<P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

And the people of God all said "Amen and amen."<P>ZebraBaby, from your mouth to God's ears.<P>MJ