In response to your last stupid question that only the OW is "allowed" to be selfish and irresponsible....I didn't know it was a competition. I think I clearly stated my opinion that two wrongs don't make a right. Just because OW is selfish and irresponsible, does that mean H should be also? Kind of a silly notion don't you think? You really read only what you want, you're so angry you don't read the omportant stuff. Sad, you must really miss a lot.