I am learning, I have a D ?. How do you go about a D? Or a faux D? I am looking into this as an option, what is needed?<BR>Responses ASAP???

I would recommend talking to a lawyer about a D.

Reaching,<P>I think maybe I missed your story, but as far as a faux divorce there is at least one on here that has dont it and a few that have a seperation....I am not one of them though, so I am sending this to the top for those that would have some good info for you.<P>Love<BR>broken_wings

RFTS,<BR>If I remember correctly, you are a ws who had a child with a mm. the reason some of us have faux divorce/separation is so that we can protect ourselves from ow taking the majority of h's paycheck, leaving us and our children in dire straits. It is the only way to make sure our families are taken into consideration.<P>However, I am unsure as to why you want info. on a faux divorce. Is it so that you can file for child support against the married man and remain with your h at the same time? I can't think of any other reason a ws in your position would seek a faux divorce. If so, the faux divorce would not be to protect yourself from unjust child support laws, but rather to take advantage of the mm and his family resources. If that is the case, forgive me, but I'm not going to volunteer much help on that.<P>Maybe if you clarify your position, more would assist.<BR>-cd

The rason I asked was we just found out H maybe facing "stalking" charges. We know they are fake, but I don't want PS or someone to come into my home and take my children away for this. I am trying to protect them. No CD, it's not so I can get support from OM and ruin his family, I care nothing about them. I am focusing on my M and my family, that's what is important to me, not OM and his dependents. That's why I was asking. Thank you for the responses.

R4TS,<P>Well, I don't think that if you claim to be divorced, but your H is still living w/you, that it would change PS's opinion either way. If they are going to take the children for this bogus charge of stalking, they will do it to get the children away from what they see as a possible threat to the children. A faux divorce won't help if you are still living in the same household. It would be like a boyfriend/girlfriend situation in which they are living together, and PS is called for whatever reason. The children are removed if there is a problem. Also, I don't think they will do anything until it is proven to be true. If they did, they could be looking at a law suit for unnecessarily taking the children from the home. <P>So, I would say that this would not be the way for you to go to protect your children. If it is that great of a concern, your H could stay with friends or family until this is sorted out.<P>Tigger

Thanks Tigger, I don't know anything about PS or any agency of that type. I was just thinking about it being a poss. of it happening. The county I live in is not favorable for anyone outside their loop. I appreciate the response!