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#803185 08/16/01 08:12 AM
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All of a sudden I realized that I always refer to her as the OW. It struck me that that gives her more status than she deserves. She is the <B>ex</B>OW. So now I always try to remember to put that in my posts.<P>Mr. Job was the first one to point this out just a couple of weeks past D-day. I kept referring to her as his lover and he finally "Could you at least say my 'ex-lover'?" Shortly afterwards I decided that the least emotionally charged way for us was to simply call her by her name. I can't say that here on the Internet, but it might just rhyme with, oh say "Timberly." or sometimes "TimberButt." *wicked, but happy grin*<P>Can someone please tell me how to make something other than a happy face?<P>Mrs. Job<p>[This message has been edited by Mrs. Job (edited August 16, 2001).]

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Mrs J,<P>I too always forget to add the "ex". <P>Now, for the other faces, just click on the "Smilies Legend" at the left, and that will bring you to the screen that shows all the different faces you can do.<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Love,<P>Tigger

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Mrs Job,<P>Thank you for that reminder. You are so right and it makes me smile when I post exow vs ow. Actually, I prefer to call her the felon. She was busted in a meth lab 4 years ago, she went to jail while she shacked up with h for dealing meth to cops 2 times and there is quite a bunch of other offenses. So felon fits her to a t and I don't have to sound judgemental. Felon and exow are facts, skank and all those other choice names are a judgement call and hopefully I am past that. Now if she were to meet me face to face, that is a whole other story. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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o.k. I'm going to be rotten. I never think of ow as other women when I'm referring to the thing that invaded my life, the ow stands for obnoxious whore. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] <BR> with love flowerseed

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Oh Flowersex,<P>I FOTHLMAO You are a scream!<P>MJ


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