One good thing about resuming visitation is that we can take Darling and have DNA testing done. Not goint to tell exOW about it. They only scrape some cells from the inside of Darling's cheek and draw blood from Mr. Job. I contacted an attorney who said if Mr. Job's name is on the birth certificate than right now he is the legal father and he can consent to this procedure.<P>I don't think that we are going to get out of this, but again for my peace of mind, I want to be sure.<P>Love, <BR>MJ