He Cheated on Me interesting refrain here and sadly enough we have all sung it right? (change to she if appropriate)<BR> HE CHEATED ON ME! A choice could have been made at anytime but he didn't make the correct one. He had vows he swore to keep and he did not keep them. He had a wife at home who loved him and he forgot her for time with this stranger who gave him sex and boy is he paying for those nights together.<BR> However, there are some others who are paying for those nights besides him. Others who did not choose to be here but are now because HE CHOOSE TO BE UNFAITHFUL.<BR> Now we are all paying the Piper because we pay child support for a child not a child of the marriage Because two incredibly selfish people did not think of anyone else but themselves. <BR> The positive thing is we learned from his mistake.<BR>We are stronger for this, (remember, what does not kill you makes you stronger.) We have learned that OUR relationship is the most important in the world. We love each other to the exclusion of others. We know that if we have a problem to turn to each other to solve it. If we have a problem with each other to express it in a positive way to make it better. Together there is no problem we cannot solve<BR> So when you hear that refrain, having danced to the tune, remember that it's a sad song, but the next one will rock you, and then become a song of joy and happiness as something that was attacked and weakened became strong, and solid. A NEW marriage was created that was better than the betrayed one. <BR> Well I have gotten carried away here. Would like to hear from you all what you think.<BR>TG

I am, along with my H, are working toward the "new and improved" version of our marriage also. I am glad to hear that it can happen. We currently have no contact with the OW who is pregnant and due in March(so we think!) She makes no effort to contact us either. I am worried that when we finally become a unit again that she will step in and we will go back to square one. Did you have that problem??<P>I just that saying "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger!". Isn't it so true??<P>VS&H

TG<P>I'm feeling this a lot. I'm PMS'ing and this was what I needed this morning, I needed to get my thoughts on paper.(I write in a journal) I'm glad you took the time to do it. <P>Unsure

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Texasgirl, I only have a sec just wanted to say I like what you had to say thats just how I feel. I have been so busy I dont even have time to think anymore.Things are going great making goobs of money and ow cant get her hands on any of it Yee hah. HI EVERYONE! <BR> with love flowerseed