Saturday: I went to drive thru bank...looks like ow in front of me....as ow leaves and I pull up she flips me off!<P>After I deposit my $...I call H to tell him. Seems that ow called him and started ranting about not wanting $ but a father for baby....H tells her to call her lawyer and hangs up.<P>Sidebar: Ow's lawyer was indicted on Tues. for bribing judges in many cases. She's left her office as of now to face charges Tues.! It means ow never got our attorneys message of asking her H to adopt baby! She's still married(in name only H is in Florida).<P>Well my GF and I went to k-Mart. Saw H's aunt there and stopped to chat. Just then ow with baby on her hip (4 mos old) and her youngest d are heading in our direction. I shout "Look! It's OW!" She looked startled! Ran up closest aisle to get away! My GF follows ow as it was the first sighting of ow for her and H's aunt. Comes back and says "Her H should have a paternity test! That baby looks NOTHING like Debi's H!" HA HA Aunt agrees....He DOESN'T look anything like h! She took all the genes there!<P>We go to the check out and GF says "Don't do anything she could have you arrested for" I say I want to spit on her for previous actions of the day! Plus Friday night as usual H's cell begins to receive hang-up calls around 11 p.m.. We turned phone off after 5 minutes of repeated hang ups.<P>Ow walks all the way around the back of the store and goes to a checkout far from us. As I was being checked out I noticed her walking toward me to leave store. I walked up to her and put my head between her and baby(in a baby seat now) to look close at baby and said"He looks exactly like his mother" and walked away smirking...to which she said softly..."I know. Isn't he beautiful?" I didn't turn and respond. She never called H again.<P>H said he was glad I didn't get myself in trouble..heh..heh..he... That was long coming. I can't wait for her to get another atty. BTW the last atty. was about to drop ow as she had no idea of harm ow was doing or her actions toward us! Maybe she'll just go away....FAT CHANCE!!<P>Oh you guys...I stuck the "twins" up high when I stepped toward her so she got a good look! OHHHH that was fun!!!!<P>FYI wedding plans going smooth so far. We're all so excited.<P>love,<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Good for you, its nice to see the BW get a little satisfaction for a change. i don't know if you read my post paternity 1,2,3 but the latest incident with my OW left me so angry that i called her job and left 3 very hateful and voilent messages. i told her i know where she lives, works and where her [censored] child goes to daycare. i told her that if she calls my dh one more time i was going to send a letter to all her neighbors, her job and her C daycare telling them what type of person she really is. I also told her, her neighbors with men would like knowing they have a predator as a neighbor LOL. i told her if she didn't want me F....with her, then don't f....with me. she'll get these messages on Monday and i'm sure she'll be shocked because my h is so mild manner. let me tell you there was nothing mild about the messages i left her. i wanted her to know i could cause her a lot of harm also. thats why its good you let her know your not afraid of her.

Debi, Girl you crack me up ! The twins, roflmbfbo ! You did good.

Gem,<P>The Twins LOL that was funny! Be careful you know how crazy and deranged she is. Even though it probably felt really good. <P>Unsure

Thanks Lemonpie, Bozo's Deb, and UNSure.<P>I'll be careful.<P>We are going WED to yet a different atty. To put all things in mine and son's name. We are doing a will also.<P>FYI...Ohio law will allow the change of surname only if BOTH parties agree. I know one who won't!<P>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Forgive me, but this all seems so immature. Leaning in to look at the baby and then commenting on it's looks? Wouldn't it be better not to give her the time of day? It just seems so unproductive and immature. Seems to me you are just sinking to her level.

Lemonpie<BR>Leaving violent messages, referring to the child as [censored]? I'm sorry but your H is the one who did this. Take your violence out him.

I often make little wagers with myself, just for the heck of it. When I read originally read gem's post, I didn't have time to reply myself, but I thought, "I'll bet anything that bonniebb happens along and jumps on gem for what she did. If I'm wrong, I'll give up cigarettes forever." <P>It was starting to worry for a while that I'd have to give up my nicotene crutch, but look - bonniebb chimed in just as expected.<P>bonniebb, the tobacco industry owes you one!<P>I'm off to have a smoke.<P>love to you gem, and to lemonpie as well.<BR>-cd

Oh gem thanks for the laugh I bet ow didnt bother to tell you who the twins look like did she! he he he. <BR> Hey cd my bet was on her going after lemon pie and sure enough she did. I'll go have me a smoke also.<BR> with love flowerseed <BR>

cd,& Flowerseed,<BR>I lit a Capri as I read the responses. Heh...heh....no Flowersex she didn't say who the twins looked like! BBBAAAAHHHAAWWWWW!!!!! rotflmao!!!!!<P>Hmmm...maybe a glass of red wine to go w/the cig.......<P>lemonpie, H and I had a screaming match a few Sat. nights ago when ow followed H's truck but H wasn't driving! A friend was! He reported what she did and I called her(she left me her private # and invited me to call so I did) on behalf of my H. I told her to quit following my H and hung up. She immediately called H's cell phone. We began a call-back session where H finally called her everything he wanted to but was afraid of. Told her to stay off business phone and to quit using the whole tape calling back repeatedly on Fri or Sat. night because he doesn't CARE how she feels! Said he's missing business calls as tape is full!<P>Called her a few choice names and said now he knew the "real" ow!!! Just a vampire! All the while I was wa-hooing in the background. <P>Immature? You bet! And it was a long time coming.<BR>Enjoyed every minute of it!!!!!!<P>Gotta go watch MLB....Met's at Pittsburgh...Atlanta and Philly....ought to be special....<P>love & hugs,<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

gem, <BR> I cracked open a nice cold hard lemonade to go with my cig. Get this I can actually have a little drinky now without it making me act like a crazed looony. I do believe I'm getting there. Injoy your game. I got me a new dryer so my big fun is laundry. I feel like a dam queen been hanging cloths outside since last yr. Its amazing how much pleasure you can get out of such a thing when you have been doing without. I have been washing everything I can find and get this its fun. I think with me working now hubby was getting concerned about having to go to work with frozen pants.<BR> with love flowerseed

Ha! Ha! Ha! Flowersex you make me laugh! A clothes dryer? Hey lady, whatever floats your boat.....<P>Frozen pants? Heh...heh...heh...ha...ha...ha...<P>Maybe they all should have had 'em?<P><BR>love and a little spice,<BR>Debi<P><BR>Let's be spice girls! I'll be "Revenge Spice", Catnip can be<BR>"Renewed Spice"...You can be "Hangin' Spice". Maybe lemonpie can be "Pissed Spice" and Tryin 4 can be "Sainthood Spice"...and ISB can be "Lovin Spice"...Tryin can be "Had It Spice"...why? can be "Hurtin Spice" whatif can be "wwjd Spice"....Mrs. Job can be "Russian Adoption Spice"....Bonnie bb can be "Annoyin' Spice".... Fluke can be "Made It Spice"...cd can be "Queen Spice" BeenThereDone That can be "Made It Through Spice" Heavenly can be "Major Mom Spice"....Tammy "Butterfly Kisses" can be "Moved On Spice"...UNSure can be "Tough Girl Spice".....Bozos Deb can be "Funny Spice"...HappyGirl can be "Workin On It Spice" Ember "Hate This Spice"...Samoyed" I Won Spice"... Gabbi "Dealin Spice"....Never be the same "Forgiveness spice" Unicorn"Spice of Life " Lakelle "Gonna Pull Through Spice" Milton-Elvis" New Beginning Spice"...Gabbi..." The Winner Spice"<P>Sorry if I forgot some of you.<P>Let me know our names!<P>love<BR>Debi aka "Revenge Spice"<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....<P>[This message has been edited by gemini1 (edited September 17, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by gemini1 (edited September 17, 2001).]

Ohhhhhh I'm a spice ! Thank you Debi , and I even bought my first (and probably last) thong yesterday. I was shocked that they not only made em big enough for me, butt (heh) too big for me too.

Too Big???? HA! HA! HA! Bozos_Deb.....you are a scream.....<P>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Ok Gem, maybe I'm post menstral syndroming, but I was bummed you didn't bless me with a spice name. See what happens, you don't post much and poof, forgot like yesterday's leftovers!<P> Just joshing, but I do want a spice name.... and not Zebra Spice... boring.<P>Z.<P>p.s. you forgot NGU too.<P>------------------<BR>Zebra Baby ...<P>Lord, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Deb,<P>I love my name Tough Girl Spice. <P><BR>Tee<P>You have to give Z and NGU a spice name.

Oh! how did I forget? There are sooooo many of us now!<P>Ok Zebra can be "Doin Fine Spice" and NGU can be "Spiritual Spice"<P>I hope I didn't double any names. This web page is slow as molasses in spring...<P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....<P>[This message has been edited by gemini1 (edited September 19, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by gemini1 (edited September 19, 2001).]

Gem, Are you having troble logging on to this site? I couldnt even get on last night 20 min and it still wouldnt open. I thought it was my computer let me know so I can leave my poor putter alone. We the girls spice girls I love it. I died laughing at Mrs Jobs twins bumper sticker. with love flowerseed

Flowerseed it was impossible last night to get on...pages were soooooo slow. Today all seems ok.<BR>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

<BR>HHHHOOOOOORRRRAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!<BR>Im so glad to be givena SPICE name<BR>i dont visit as often and sometimes feel i dont get a lot of replies or get as close relationship as others!<P><BR>But Forgiveness??? i dont know <BR>maybe some days but NEVER FORGET!!!!!!!!!