I have not had a chnace to post a reply to the newest casualties that have found this place. All i can say is the beginning period is the hardest and as tacky as it sounds time does help you get a handle on things, doesn't make it better but you can control your feelings a bit more. i also apologizebecause you will often notice typos in my replys because i think faster than i type and i have young kids sdo i don't have the time to make the corrections. I can say just do what YOU feelis right!