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I do not blame you one bit! Be careful w/the teens. My son suffered GREAT DEPRESSION 2 months post d-day after acting as my stoic leaning post!!!!<P>Beware and bless you all!<P>May God guide your lives. <BR>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....
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i didn't tell my h of my plans last night because he came in in such a good mood and i was emotionally drained. i don't know if i will tell him today because today is our anniversary, 19 years and my sister is coming for dinner so i want to stay as upbeat as possible. will keep you posted on how it goes.
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Oh lemonpie I feel for you today. Listen it seems as if all the ws here acted the same at first.<P>Are you in counseling? At your church is a good place to start.<P>Ow here played it up and wouldn't go for dna and acted hurt my h would even ask her! He succumbed to her for a while. she even called the day of the test because she didn't know where the place was and h gave her directions! I told him she should have called the lab for directions!( he agreed but was scared to upset her)<P>He also at the beginning would not could not go on w/o seeing c. <P>Through all of his outpouring of love for me and prayers I agreed wholeheartedly to visits set up by me. That if the c was all she was worried about then it shouldn't be a problem. <P>Well it was a problem and she toyed with us all summer to the point of telling h she still wanted him and e-mailing me and telling me I was an old ugly woman who needed a face lift!<P>Her antics have caused my h to cling tighter to me. He also is to the point where he wants her h to adopt baby! We've not heard back from her or her atty. since that proposal. She did e-mail a letter to us and said it will never happen...that she's suing h for paternity. That was 2 weeks ago and all is quiet for now.<P>What I want to say is that for some reason they all lie in the beginning even though they still want to be w/us.<P>Follow the Harleys principals and pray and counsel. Things in our situations change from day to day and may even get better sooner than anticipated.<P>Bless you today.<P>love<BR>Debi<P><P>------------------<BR>Imagine....
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