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Well I just sent an email to my W telling her about this site. I've told her to read the things I have posted and to read what others have said. I'm not sure how she'll react but I can't stand leaving her out of the pain I'm feeling and trying to help her understand my feelings. Maybe she'll be able to post some of her feelings as well.
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Joined: Sep 2001
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I tried that before but it was no use! He was blaming me into forcing him into working the relationship and he had no desire of working. So just be caution, if she turn you down. Don't be offended maybe she just not ready yet.
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Joined: Nov 2000
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Good for you Milton-Elvis.<BR>I know at first my h was jealous of my friends in pain here because it was so hard for him to accept what he had done.<BR>Your honesty should help your w see what a loving man she has.<P>Prayers,<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....
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Well at first my W didn't like the fact that I was posting our personal business here. But she has a friend with cancer who told W how much talking with others in the same situation helped her in dealing with the disease and that I was just doing the same. W called back to apologize for being so upset at first and since then we have been communicating better.
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I just encouraged my H to log onto the site as well. He seems to be interested and wrote me an email telling me that he is going to log on again tomorrow. Just keep praying that God would use and bless this resource for his purpose. You and your wife need encouragement during times like these and I would hope that you both seek God's wisdom and God's answers for your marriage because He has the right ones. <BR>God bless.
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