PM (Police man) has been trying to reassure me that he will be able to be a father to this baby. He is working really hard now, going to instructor school so that he can teach law enforcement classes and make more money. He goes to school from 8am to 430pm and works at the police dept from 5pm-midnight. then he goes home, but is on call until 3 am. At least twice a week he gets someone to take calls for him and he drives the time it takes to come see me and how I'm doing and basically he's just trying to be a "friend" right now. Since his daughter by OW lives in the same town as he does, he sees her everyday ( that's more than he saw her when he had his own apt.) and he SAYS XW knows about it. He also told me that things are still not so good at his house because him and XW are still having problems and that he is going to give it until February to see if they can truly reconcile and talk about remarrying. I don't know what his plans are after that. But for now, it looks as if we will be parents.<BR> [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ October 13, 2001: Message edited by: double trouble ]