Where is the 'balance' in a relationship - or is there any form of balance?

I've found for me personally that I want a relationship where I'm equally yoked with another person (preferably a really wonderful MAN type person <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) but I'm not sure what that means.

I believe there has to be God in the center of the relationship - and both must be working toward a better relationship with God, but beyond that --- what kind of 'balance' is required?

Any suggestions - or ideas on the topic?

Jan